If your sex life dies down with your partner, what kinky things would you do to get it going again?
2006-08-08 10:44:31 · 12 answers · asked by lovenstrength83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We role play= he's a cop I'm the bad girl or I'm the school teacher and he's the bad boy
We use feathers, chocolate, blind folds, hand cuffs,massage oils, coupons (sexual ones) on each other.
We have sex in many different places, the car, a park, a pool, the backyard.
We talk dirty to each other.
Do whatever it takes and have fun!!!
2006-08-08 10:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something new!!! Change your looks, try things you have never tried before, go on a little vacation, go on a picnic and talk! If you need help in opening up, play a game that will get you both to be open and intimate.
In the bedroom:
Lots of foreplay, use toys and experiment, guys love using toys on a woman, thats the fun of sex is experimenting, and be open to new ideas, you may think it's something you won't like, but in the end it may surprise you.
Try all variations and see what stimulates you most.
You need to be creative to avoid sexual boredom. Try a new location, rent a hotel room, experiment with new positions, buy new lingerie, rent a sexy video, try a hot bath, candles and a massage. Cast your inhibitions to the wind. And then get busy!
2006-08-08 18:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Romantic setting... Always look good for him, encourage more fore-play, be patient, the female should not expect all the agressive foreplay from the male, try things that you would enjoy doing to him or her... Don't accept sex as a necessity but as a pleasure with both participating and working at it for success.
2006-08-08 17:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been together a long time, and I find that when things start getting boring in that area I break out the camera and the camcorder. Nothing is more sexy then watching yourself get off. Don't forget the prompts if you know what I mean.
2006-08-08 17:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by t4king 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheat
2006-08-08 17:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a sex store i'm sure you can find something to spice it up there
2006-08-08 18:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Handcuffs, Dirty Talk, Go to barnes and noble and get a kama sutra book. It works!
2006-08-08 17:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend toys. They can help. But, if the spark is gone there could be other reasons. You might want to look into that.
2006-08-08 17:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by SHELLBELL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
visit a sex shop
2006-08-08 18:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by ani2525 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play with them.
2006-08-08 17:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by No.Use.For.A.Name. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋