Married over 20 years, now she wanst a bigger dick than my 6'...she is falling for a guy at work, who happens to be black and has a nice dick as she puts it...
2006-08-08 10:34:46 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you are an idiot.
2006-08-08 10:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mike S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, she's falling for a guy at work? Why are you still with her. Marriage is a commitment. She either wants it or she doesn't. Sex is supposed to be between you and your wife. Not you and you wife, and then your wife and another guy. Maybe you two should try some sex toys, or get counseling. You've been married over 20 years. Like the other person said, she knew what she was getting. If she isn't satisfied and she wants another man, tell her to get to stepping, and she can have whatever man she wants when she signs the divorce papers. I'm sure some other woman would appreciate your six inch ****. Besides, you sound like you might be a good guy. Too good for even considering it.
2006-08-08 11:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her do it, but tell her you have a fantasy of watching from the closet. Then get in there with the video camera on night shot and film away. When they are done, edit the tape, hand it to your divorce attorney, and reap the rewards. Or don't tape it, walk in, hack them both up with a knife, run off in your expensive Italian loafers, leave your too small black leather gloves on the walkway, oops sorry OJ.
2006-08-08 11:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by itzmedbd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how would she knows he has a bigger dick? well i dont think you should let her bang a black guy because its not always the size of the d@ck other things take part... if you let her she might not want you back or if she does it then she might realize urs is juust fine....(slap her with ur d#ck and tell her to suck it up) she is your wife lol and she should want to cheat after 20 yrs
2006-08-08 10:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy LoVe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds bored. Do something to add some spice and romance to your relationship with her. I just hope it's not too late, although it sounds like it may be.
I don't believe in "open marriages". Sure, we all fantasize, but when it comes down to it, married couples should only be making love to each other. It's a safety net (for obvious reasons). I would get yourself checked for STDs, and don't have sex with her unprotected until she agrees to get checked out too.
2006-08-08 11:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by MaknMeCrzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as if you need to spice things up if you want to stay with her. Or, do you secretly fantasize about her with a black man and are looking for someone to say it's ok. Or, you want to sleep with someone else also and this is your ticket. In fact, how do you know that she is not just testing you to see if you have or would cheat on her. It sounds to me like you are an older couple that wants to experiment with swining. Good luck!
2006-08-08 12:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by jesse'sgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! She said "I do." And how does she know if this man has a "nice dick"?? I'd be questioning if she has already had an affair. That should be the question you ask.
2006-08-08 10:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Steph 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no tell her that you married her cause you love her, and a marriage is only two people that is it not three or four or a hundred. tell her that if she feels differently that if she wants to be with other men that she would have to divorce you, you are not going to lower your standards of what you know a marriage should be, that if that is not enough for her then maybe she should get a divorce, so that you can settle down with someone that realy only wants to be with you. good luck
2006-08-08 10:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
devorce. ask her if you can have another female...
this is tottaly wrong of her and disrespectfull, dose she not take
her vales, seriously..... why dont you try asking her to do things in diffrent ways or in different places the thought of getting cought is always exiting and fun to anyone... iether win her back before she cheats or let her go.. you deserve wayyyyyyy better than that.
20 years aint nothing compared to speeding a lifetime with someone who truly loves and cares for you and who will respect you and there vow's to god.....
2006-08-08 10:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't let your wife date him although I don't understand why you state your wife wants to date a black guy..It sounds like she just wants someone bigger than you whether they are black or not. Regardless don't let her. Invest in a large "toy" or a pump!
2006-08-08 10:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by Twinkle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does she know he has a bigger dick...its she herself who has 2 decide if she wants to go for it or not but as a partner it will be very difficult for u to accept the fact .
2006-08-08 10:39:28 · answer #11 · answered by jewel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋