My friend and I have been good friends for a long time. We've had some rough patches, but then again so has any good friendship. We wants me to roomate with him and his girlfriend. Now my only reservations are that we have a history, I am gay and I am the one who brought him out of his preverbial closet, at least halfway, catch my drift? His girlfriend knows, do i move in with him and the girl? I love them both they are wonderful people but i am afraid that he will be jealous of my his girlfriends friendship. As he has already voice his concern to me that I "spoil" her to much by simply doing nice things. What do i do?
2006-08-08 10:26:02 · 17 answers · asked by Joe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No!! Sounds like there is too much drama already and by living together you are just going to create more. It is VERY, VERY hard to live with other people and not fight or have problems because that is your home and everyone is raised differently. So, if you have some issues right now in the relationship, that is just going to make it worse. Better to save a friendship.
2006-08-08 10:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by katybeth212001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen more friendships ruined when the friends become roommates than I can count. I would advise that you not move in with them - and as for your "spoiling" the girlfriend, that's why I love having gay friends because they are more considerate, and conscientious towards other people than straight or quasi straight guys. I hope this works out for you.
2006-08-08 17:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mother Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to get a clue, he should choose one side of the fence and stay there. I hate when a person claims to be bi, that's just a short stop on the way to gay town. Don't put yourself out like that. It seems to me that he wants to live a lie, and you don't want to get caught up in all the Bulls*** that's going to go down. Sure be there as a friend, but don't subject yourself to his foolishness everyday.
2006-08-08 17:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by t4king 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you value the friendship then I think you should not move in... that sounds like a bad accident just waiting to happen...
2006-08-08 17:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a recipe for disaster if you ask me. A love triangle NEVER works out in the end. Save all of you some hardship and heartache,and DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!
2006-08-08 17:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by evilnerd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you want to stay friends stay away from the living arrangements. I think by the sounds of it, it will only cause a lot of problems.
2006-08-08 17:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by wanda_wright92 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts? Your going to move in with your girlfriend and his girlfriend? Give them a chance gay caballero.
2006-08-08 18:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to remain friends dont move it, i promise it will mess up the friendship to the point where it doesnt exist anymore
2006-08-08 17:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to lose a friend? then move in. Just let him know the way you feel,a gool friend will understand.
2006-08-08 17:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even think about it! It would probably cause more harm. Seems like he wants to tip on both sides.
2006-08-08 17:30:39 · answer #10 · answered by Starr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋