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Ok so this guy and I have been friends for 9 years and in those 9 years we have tried to have a relationship 3 or 4 times, but it never seems to work because we live in different states, and not close states. We always pick up where we left off, I have never stopped loving him and vice versa. I want to leave where I'm at and I was thinking about moving to be close to him so that maybe we can give it a shot. Should I move to be with him?

2006-08-08 10:25:10 · 9 answers · asked by Gotquestions?? 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

I know that I will always love him. I have since the day I met him, it's a weird fate sort of thing. Also he is the one talking about us living together, and I know that isn't a good idea, so I doubt that we will live together right away.

2006-08-08 10:46:26 · update #1

9 answers

If you think that you love him and you never stopped then you should give it a shot! Obviously you care very deeply about him! Good luck!

2006-08-08 10:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by lovenstrength83 1 · 0 0

You really need to look into your heart see if your feelings are true for him. If the love is there and you are not satisfied with where you are right now then move. Make sure that the love is there first though because if you move and find out that he doesn't feel the same way now it could be very hurtful to you.

2006-08-08 10:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by cincin 1 · 0 0

Up in the air on this one. Are you all considering marriage? Have you thought about what will happen if the relationship fails. Will you be staying with him or in your own place. Moving near him is not bad just don't move "in" with him. Have your own place and he has his. This way, if things don't work out between you two, you won't have to worry about getting out of his place. Good Luck.

2006-08-08 10:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by Who me? 3 · 0 0

I don't think moving in together is a good idea. Move close. Let the relationship work it's self out. He may not want you to just move in.

2006-08-08 10:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0 0

No. You would have done it already in 9 years if your feelings were strong enough.

2006-08-08 10:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 1 · 0 0

been there done that 6 yrs im not sure of outcome just wanted to wish u luck and love i know how hard it is

2006-08-08 10:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by getomorrowforme 1 · 0 0

If you really love him then you should but if u dont feel that u love him enough to change ur life and move then dont. Its ur choice

2006-08-08 10:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by baby gurl 3 · 0 0

if you want to move anyway you should give it a shot. best of luck

2006-08-08 10:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by midesweet 3 · 0 0

We don't know much about your situation, but if you love him that much, yes.

2006-08-08 10:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0 0

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