Move out of Mom's house and live with Dad??

Question

I'm 14 and I've been living with my Mom my whole life. My Dad moved out when I was 4 but we still got together every weekend and went bowling and stuff. I have a really good time with my Dad. I have always wanted to go live with my Dad but I did'nt want to leave my Mom alone. Now she has a boyfriend who lives with her and I was thinking, should I stay with my Mom or go with my Dad. I thought maybe I could be maybe one month with my Mom and one with my Dad

Answer 1

You might talk to both your Mom and your Dad about the idea - and make a list of the good points & bad points. Your Mom might like the idea of having more time alone with the new boyfriend but your Dad might not be prepared to have you move in with him full-time. Find out how each of them feels and take it from there. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck!

Answer 2

Have you asked your Dad about coming to live with him? Would that work out for him? I think it would be great for you as you are coming into manhood and that would be a good way to enter. Do you feel comfortable with your mother's boyfriend actually living with you? Does your mother know what you would like to do? Present it to her after you have spoken with your Dad. You will have a better idea of next steps by then.

Answer 3

well maybe you should sit and talk to your mom and dad, tell them that you would like to spend more of an equal time with them, that you like living with both of them and want to know if there is something that you guys could work out, like maybe half a year at one place and other half at another or something like that, just bring it up, and see what happens.

Answer 4

first ask your dad if this is something he would like and then make a decision

Answer 5

go ahead girl"s have alway"s loved dad more than mom