I like this guy at school but he acts like I am not even there we were really good friends a couple years back and now he just doesn't even care I need help with getting him to notice me so what should I do?
2006-08-08 10:08:09 · 47 answers · asked by Soccer Chick 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Personality is EVERYTHING
2006-08-08 10:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
The problem with most girls is that they tend to fall into three categories when they get around guys.
Sex kitten
Shy Girl
The Girl who tries to hard.
None of these will help you attain what you want and each has only a temporary affect. The key is to develop your personality and self identity. These are the secrets of truly charasmatic people. They know who they are and thus are secure in any situation. I promise a girl who can display grace, elegance, and confidence will stand out like shinig beacon in room of neurotic, egocentric, girls. And the beautiful part is if he decides you are not his type then you will still be in a mental place where you can meet the next Mr. Right.
2006-08-08 10:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by levindis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality is key. But le me tell ya something. If a guy doesn't notice you, then you probably don't spark his interest body wise. Why don't you try a new look? Get you hair done, colored, whatever. Watch him and see who he looks at at school. You don't have to dress likea hooker to be sexy! Make it a point to talk to him or at least say hi in the hallway or something. You'll find out quick if he's interested. Good luck! If you need help with style tips, IM me or e-mail me. I may be able to help!
2006-08-08 10:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by Autumn_Anne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay confident in the person that you are. If you are feeling less than sexy, than it shows to everyone around you. You might seem insecure or fragile, something most guys today don't want. Walk tall, keep you head up and most of all, be true to yourself. If you have to, look in the mirror before you head out for the day and tell youself you look great or some other mantra (I'm sexy and I know it!). Guys love to see a woman confident in herself and her body, regardless what see may look like. Good Luck!!!!
2006-08-08 10:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by lilbitadevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is shy also.Guys sometimes are intimidated of beautiful women. If you are a hot chick, just act classy. Guys are visual creatures. Every guy likes a classy girl. Just dress sexy, but not slutty. Compliment him on what he did. Guys like the thought of being "the man." Remember have some class to yourself also.
2006-08-08 10:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by kwest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
er, well the only way you're going to turn into a prostitute is by accepting money for sexual favors-- don't do that, and you have that part covered.
your name is "soccer chick", something or the other, so would it be safe to assume you are a bit sporty? you could try by being a little more girly, if you aren't already.
really, you can do all sorts of cosmetic things to attract him, but if you're not a tomboy and you ARE feminine, he just might not like you.
find someone who does.. for who you are.
2006-08-08 10:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by onegirltimestwo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is key, although I know that it's easier said than done. I knew a girl in high school that all the guys liked, and once I asked my guy friend why. He said that it was because she seemed so comfortable in her own skin and she was happy. Try for that.
2006-08-08 10:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by Cols 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smell great but not to much perfume wear just the right clothes and outfits but dont put your self out there because then your making it seem like your not worthy of him show him your better off alone hell come to you get a boyfrind or somthing to make him jealous
2006-08-08 10:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by lohanaddict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you wouldn't want to be with a guy who only notices your appearance. When the only thing you have in common is "he thinks I'm hot," your relationship is doomed.
Talk to him about old times. Maybe that will turn his thoughts toward you. If not, chalk it up to 'never meant to be' and move on.
2006-08-08 10:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by Samuel C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever talked to him before? If not, why not give that a shot? You don't have to act like a prostitute to get guys to notice you. Maybe give yourself a little makeover, and suck it up and go and talk to him. If you act like a wallflower, they will treat you like one.
2006-08-08 10:12:45 · answer #10 · answered by jagerchick80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make eye contact and give a little smile and that's it,, don't push or you will seem desperate for his attention and that is a major turn of for guys,,confidence is what you need a little bit can go along way
2006-08-08 10:15:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋