MY Friend was pressuring me to have sex with her friend what shoiuld i do????????????

Question

ps iam 14 and she is 13

Answer 1

First I would stop and think things over as far as her being your friend. Good friends don't pressure friends into doing thing they aren't ready to do or just dont want to do. You both are still so young. You don't want to just have sex with anyone, you want it to be with someone u truly care about. If you don't want to have sex with this person than you shouldn't and if your friend can't accept that then you need to just find yourself a new friend. Never do anything that you don't want to do. You will regret it. Be a leader not a follower!!! Good luck!!!

Answer 2

First of all, your friend is pressuring you...to me that should be an automatic "NO" Never let anyone pressure you, especially on the subject of sex. Why? Because if it's pressured, you'll end up hating yourself over it and possibly your friend.

Secondly, it's obvious you're in doubts about having a sexual relation right now with this person or you wouldn't be asking for advice.

Thirdly, No matter how safe you think you are, there is always the risk of a pregnancy or a sexually transmitted disease. Do you really want to risk getting something that never goes away? Is a few moments of sexual pleasure really worth a possible death sentence (ie...AIDS)?

Answer 3

She is not your friend. She is a bad influence. A friend would never pressure you into doing anything. A friend would try to keep you from getting into trouble and doing something that could have devastating results. Don't do it. Find someone else to be friend's with. Also, confide in your mother or another responsible adult if you feel overwhelmed. If you get pregnant, your friend will be gone and you will be stuck. If we are talking about homosexual activity, don't let confusion cause you to make choices that you will regret later. Tell her to go blow!

Answer 4

i was 15 when i first had sex and im pregnant and have reason to believe that the boy i had sex with mite have an STD, im 16 now but im still pregnant......but if ur a gurl havin sex with another gurl its just as bad, think about this carefully the fact that ur even askin advice about this shows that ur not ready, because ur so young it really isnt worth the few moments of pleasure trust me. and if ur friend decides 2 dislike u for seyin "no" then they dont respect u and arent ur real friends. good luck

Answer 5

Do you really need friends that would pressure you to have sex? Seems to me they don't have much respect for you, and if that's the case, they're not very good friends.

Answer 6

She is asking for trouble... Just stay away and wait until you are in a legal age of at least 18 years old.

Answer 7

Say no you are way to young to be having sex with a girl or a boy.Don´t do it.

Answer 8

DONT BE A FOLLOWER!! THINK FOR YOURSELF!

YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO HAVE SEX!!! This girl is NOT your friend--she is a BAD INFLUENCE..You need to dump her--she sucks.

Peace

Answer 9

My advice is this.......if you dont feel right about it and arent comfortable with this......Then don't do it......noone should be pressuring into doing anything you do not want to do and that includes sex.

I know peer pressure is a very difficult thing to to deal with......Im guessing its like if you tell someone no then you feel they will see you as not cool or not worth hanging out with. Let me ask you this though......who isnt the cool one right now......isn't this person you say is a friend pretty uncool to want to pressure you into having sex with someone? If you ask me she is.......no real friend would do that to you......they would have your best interest at heart and care about you and respect you......doesnt sound like this person does any of that for you my friend.....how can this person be a friend when all she wants to do is pressure you into something that in the long run will hurt you?

I too had someone I thought was a friend and at that time I was well out of my teens, but I can relate to the being pressured to do things you dont want to or dont feel right about.....I want to let you know the concequences of going against yourself and making a wrong choice of going along and doing what your so called friend pressured you into. I gave in and did things I wouldnt ever do and it nearly killed me in every way........to do something you know is wrong, that you know isnt you and to live that lie tears you apart and its not a pretty picture........I felt as if i was dying in every way possible....emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physcially......because I gave in and did what I knew I shouldnt be doing I suffered and was depressed for a very long time and all I did was cry, but Praise God He saved me from myself and delivered me from this so called friendship and out of that life and into a way better one filled with joy and happiness.

You dont have to go through the pain I did my friend.......you can remain true to who you are and not cave into that peer pressure........stick to your guns and tell this person no that you will not have sex with anyone because she wants you to. You are precious in the sight of God and He wants you to live a joyful and abundant life and He loves you so much. He is and always will be your best friend because He will never do anything to hurt you, will never turn His back on you or forsake you........Now that is a true friend.

It wont be easy im not saying it will, but tell this person no and that if she was a real friend she wouldnt be pushing you into doing something you dont want to do......if she doesnt listen and stop the pressuring you might have to walk away from the friendship and yes it will be hard at first.......it was for me when I walked away from the so called friendship I was in, but at the same time real friends dont do things or want you to do things that could hurt you and I urge you think about this person and what she is doing and is she what you would call a real friend?

Doing what is right isnt always easy, but in the end its so worth it. You will keep your self respect and dignity and avoid alot of unnecessary pain, as well as being a great example to others that may go through the same thing later on in thier lives. If you ask me you will be darn cool for doing the right thing and anyone that wouldnt want to hang out with you would be missing out on getting to know a great person.

Good luck with this situation I hope and pray you make the right choice..... God be with you.

Answer 10

Okay..
What I would do is drop that so called friend and tell her no way!!
But this is your decision, I suggest you base it on how much you value your sexual purity.... Hope this helps...