my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for over a year. but not happening for some reason. everytime we make love, the sperm come right back out of me?? I don't know why.. He is "big"down there, but it still comes out. So he thought it would be a good idea to use the ovulation sticks to make sure i am ovulating, then have sex but right before he goes, he goes in a cup and get a syringe and put it all the way in me like that. (he means like a reall really long one..?? This lady I know that is a lesbian had her guy friend do that for her and her lesbian girlfriend?? Do you think that is werid?? Do you think it will work???
2006-08-08 09:53:36 · 11 answers · asked by Mommy2Two!! 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
yes i elevate my bottom for more than 30 mins. i usualy fall asleep like that at night.. but i wake up in the middle of the night with most of it coming out?? plus he does leave it in while he is at that point. i dunno
2006-08-08 10:02:07 · update #1
I don't think that will work. I see some sterilization problems, insertion problems, and location problems relating to your insides. I think it is pretty much impossible for you guys to get it right, plus be extemely lucky for it to happen that way. I can tell you this...
The first time for my wife and myself took over 15 months. We know some other couples that it took nearly 2 years. I believe for most people actually trying to get pregnant, it takes some time. Now the high school girl with legs up in air in the back of a 78 Trans AM will get pregnant the first time; but those of us trying on purpose just cannot get it done. Be patient and have lots of sex. Whats wrong with that? Try not to worry. Let it go. Worry might complicate the process.
Now there are other unthinkable reasons. Have you both been tested for fertility? Hopefully that wouldn't be it, but one of you could be unable. Just a thought there...
Just keep going at it...all the time! Keep going with your life. Plan a big vacation and see what happens. The day I was going to book an Alaskan cruise for us, my wife told me she was pregnant. Good thing I planned that trip and had to cancel it. Good Luck
2006-08-08 10:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ron B. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes many couples longer than a year to conceive. Using a syringe will not help. During the seconds it would take him to go in the cup, then suck it up in a syringe, most of the sperm would already be dead. Best to do it the way God intended and hope for the best. Go to the doc and get tested for reasons of why it is taking longer than expected. Could be low sperm count, could be something with your ovaries, could be an std (that one of you didnt know you had) that has caused damage to the organs, etc.......
2006-08-08 12:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying the old fashion way. When you have an org@sm the uterus spasms and a process takes place in which the uterus basically sucks sperm up in though the cervix helping the sperm along. If no luck persists you both may want to be test for infertility, but be ready for possibly bad results just in case.
2006-08-08 10:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by Eye of Innocence 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL I have some lesbian friends how joke about using a turkey baster! I don't know if it works or not. After you have sex why don't you elevate for like 30 minutes to keep it from coming right out?
2006-08-08 09:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by mememe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me and my husband over two years to get pregnant! What goes in must come out ha ha i was thinking the same thing when we were trying the only thing that worked was total relaxation on both parts and i don't think the size of him effects baby making
2006-08-08 10:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES THAT IS TOATALLY WEIRD!!!! OMG!!! are you serious?
If god intended us to be concieved by syringe don't you think he would have provided us with one?
IT'S NATURAL, for sperm to come out just let your husband do his work and you try to lie down after and don't move for a least an hour so the sperm to stay in, you can also put a pillow under your butt to keep it from coming out but please throw the sryinge away!!!
2006-08-08 10:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by Peace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all some amount of leaking is normal regardless of his size.yes I think that's weird.IF you really are concerned go visit your doctor to ensure nothing is wrong medically then stop taking the fun out of it.Relax, stop thinking about trying to conceive and just have some down and dirty fun with your hubby.
2006-08-08 10:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by pretty face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried to elevate your bottom on a pillow after sex to keep the sperm in there and to allow gravity to help? i have heard this helps .
as far as weird , do what you got to do .
2006-08-08 10:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by mick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get eggs in you if you have tried over a year
2006-08-12 06:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by Dina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he should leave in in when he reaches that point
2006-08-08 09:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋