Ever Straight guy that I have talked to about gay guys they say they can't stand gay guys. And this is their reason: "Because I don't want them hitting on me." OR "I don't want them looking at me."
Just because I guy likes guys doesn't mean they are going to think that you are attractive. The gay guys I know go after G-A-Y guys! Not straight ones, you fool.
--Brittany
2006-08-08 09:39:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
from what ive experianced is that the "typicall" heterosexual male will throw insults at a homsexual male or possibly even hurt him. Why? the heterosexual male is affriad. He has no knowledge of homsexuality, so he lives in fear of it. When it comes to the hetersosexual and homsexual females typically its perfectly fine, cuz they look at it as "hot". So why is lesbiansim ok and homsexual males arent wiht hetersexual males? a blunt simple answer would jsut be the typical striahgt male is a ******* dumbass and should not be so narrow midned
2006-08-08 09:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not all straight guys feel this way. Many straight guys are fine hanging around gays. You'd be surprized.
Also, their are some unscrupulous gay guys that give the rest of us a bad name. They hit on anything that moves - gay or straight. You have to be mean to them to get them to stop. Although they are a minority, they make the rest of us look bad and cause a lot of damage for us more socialy conscious responsible people.
Just patiently and firmly explain you are not interested in them and wish them a good day. You will have to do this a lot.
2006-08-08 10:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Or maybe they're worried that we'll hit on the other guys in the room, but not them, thus leaving them not only without a female companion, but turned down (by not being hit upon) by the gay guy!
But it doesn't work that way. We mostly like other gay guys. It makes things so much more fun. Sometimes a straight guy gives off signals that he might be available...that's different.
2006-08-08 10:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right ive never understood why they tend to think that even the dusty short bald ones with a gut think there bait to any passing gay guy.if the women don't want them what makes them think we do ...lol
Believe me from experience were after other gay guys ,they look better and they know what there doing,and there usually more fun.
Male ego makes most men think there good in the sack,and most men gay or strait never get told there not ....lol!
When they say "oh but there looking at me" it could be just that hes wearing appalling shoes or that their thinking poor man he doesn't seem to have it together ...its not always about sex ...honest!
2006-08-08 10:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by Bearable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have major misconceptions about homosexuals. They think that homosexuals will hit on any member of their own sex.
All gay/bi guys have their own unique preferences in people. Some like muscular types, others like bears, and some go for twinks. There are gay guys who claim that looks don't matter - that they go for personality. Each is different, but there will always be people that fall outside of what an individual gay/bi person finds attractive.
Gay/bi guys will always go after gay/bi guys, but sometimes having a crush on a straight person is unavoidable. Its a frustrating situation for a gay/bi person to be in, but it does happen - choosing to act upon these feelings is a different choice entirely.
2006-08-08 11:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by nemesis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A dick tion is addiction no matter if it is drugs or sex. I don't think it can be controlled by natural means. It takes God to fill that void that is being filled with other means, as a tempory fix for the real thing. It (could) be uncomfortable to think that some other guy might be looking at you with thoughts of sex. My question is this? what would make you think they were?
Oh by the way I am the person that doesn't believe that there is such a gender as gay. I think it is a desire not a human title, or political party. Uncontrolable sexual desire comes under the heading of lust and fornication and these are discribed as sin in the bible.
2006-08-08 09:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by happylife22842 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't hate gay guys, and I have several gay male friends. I am straight, and it's not an issue.
Once in a while, however, if I'm going to meet up with friends at a bar (usually with my girlfriend) and it happens to be a GAY bar, the EYES FOLLOW ME! I take it as a compliment.
2006-08-08 09:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by tonevault 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not want to be picked up by a gay man, but that doesn't mean I can't stand them. I can emphatize with a gay man who thought that I was gay, but I would inform him that I wasn't gay.
I have had friends who were hit on by gay man and my friends made it clear that they were not interested.
2006-08-08 09:44:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there are different kind of gays, the promiscuous gays who they don't care who the guys are and they want to hit on every guy and the gays who want to make sure the guy is gay before hitting on him.
2006-08-08 09:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by Bham 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't call him a fool how you think gay came in the making because the gays went out looking for straight man to turn them into gays too, so don't call him a fool because he is right gay man look other man to improve the whole gay society to expand on there foolishness i can't belive, how you feel if a gay is looking you that's if you ain't one cause you are offended by what your friend said ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.
2006-08-08 09:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋