OK so I have a boyfriend and have only dated boys. But I have made out with like 3 or 4 girls since I was 13 (now I'm 22) and sometimes with my boyfriend I fantasize that it's really another girl. And sometimes watching adult movies the girl figure turns me on more than the guy. BUT I could never date a girl and have never had a true crush on one, only sexually, and the thought of going down on one makes me want to throw up? So am I bi or just curious?
2006-08-08 09:38:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No, ur still str8 b/c even though u slept with other girls, ur preference is with men, so ur still str8.
2006-08-08 09:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for straight women to find an occaisional physical attraction to another pretty female. You experimented sexually during your early teen years: a quite normal thing that happens far more often than you realize.
And you may even enjoy the idea of various degrees of intimate play w/ another female. But if you don't see dating one or going "hardcore" in bed w/ one; then I'd say you're "curious".
And if you found an attractive female who is on the same page w/ you and you entertain the idea of a special "girls night out" with, I still don't see where you can be "bisexual" fully.....and again: there's NOTHING wrong with experiencing such sensous pleasures.
2006-08-11 16:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I've SO been there- still am sometimes & I'm older than you. My way of coming to grips with it is to not categorize myself as one thing or another. I feel like by doing so I'm sort of labeling myself- not everyone feels that way & that's fine, but I do feel that way. If someone flat-out asks me what I am- which has hardly ever happened- I say I'm predominantly straight, 80% hetero, something to that effect & give a brief explanation. But that's only if it's someone I know & am comfortable with. If I barely know the person (in which case I wouldn't appreciate them asking anyway) then I say I'm straight. That way I can avoid a lengthy, personal explanation & I still feel pretty honest about it.
But basically- bi, trans, gay, straight, or somewhere in-between- we are who we are. Don't feel too obligated to consider yourself one or the other.
EDIT: This is for Daddys Girl (below). On what do you base that? What if a girl forces herself on another girl- is the victim automatically bisexual for life? I'm not understanding your answer....
2006-08-08 17:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by nightingale974 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just curious. By the way, don't tell that "makes me want to throw up" story to any of your bi or lesbian friends. You don't have to say everything that's on your mind.
You might be bi if you could say that were you out of town, with a group of strangers, and you met a woman, you would hook up, knowing that nobody would ever find out. Then your resistance now is to the social pressure, and not your natural instincts.
2006-08-08 17:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just curious. the giveaway? You enjoy fantasising about it but
" I could never date a girl and have never had a true crush on one, only sexually, and the thought of going down on one makes me want to throw up?"
2006-08-11 07:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you are just curious. A lot of straight woman fantasize about being with another woman andget turned on watching women. If the thought of pleasuring a woman makes you sick, then you are not bi-sexual.
2006-08-08 19:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your a 22 year old female...theese orientation names i personally think are stupid. Most people dont know the future, and I know i dont. So whos to say you could fall madly in love iwht a gurl at sum point...even if you dont want sexual relations wiht her it doesnt make you lesbian or bi or anything. It means at this point in ur life you want to be wiht this person, and thats ok. So I think you shouldnt let this question get to you. My suggestion would to be to just accept at sum point you may potentially want a relationship wiht a female sexually or jsut emotionally. and you can still like males. You could date a gurl for 10 years and still like guys. So my point is sexual orientation titles are usless..you dotn knwo what will happen so jsut let your life flow...dont try to manipulate it . live day by day.
2006-08-08 16:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by living_dead_boi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have only had straight sex,but fantasise about a woman eating me out...I would love to be kissed,touched,loved by a woman...would love to feel her soft breasts,taste her...sorry if I'm getting too graphic for anyone...
2006-08-12 13:46:52 · answer #8 · answered by BellaDonna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I donot care what anyone says..once you have been with a female you are bi-sexusal...that is it..it does not mattert whether you ever do it again...
2006-08-08 17:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by Daddys Girl R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just curious. you only like them sexually right? it's not like you actually like like them.
2006-08-08 20:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by TROLLIN' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋