in a nutshell my boyfriend and i have call it quits after a long time. everyone keeps telling me that there are other fish etc etc but i cant imagine that there is another guy out there for me. this guy was perfect and sweet and cared for me before himself and was just so good to me (he went to college so we broke up)
someone tell me their own story about how you broke up with a guy/girl and thoguht your life was gonna end bc you could see yourself with anyone else everrr and then you found someone better, even though the person before was soooooo amazing and you didnt believe you could find better.
thanks. i really appreciate it.
2006-08-08 09:32:39 · 5 answers · asked by mervelash 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the question is, tell me about how you found a better fish in the sea when you thought he/she didnt exist. (becuase the old fish was soooo great)
2006-08-08 09:37:14 · update #1
like tell me your story
2006-08-08 09:41:00 · update #2
Think of life as a fishing trip. So you caught one and put him in the box with some ice. If you keep looking at the one on ice instead of dropping your line again you are going to be very, very bored. Each day is an adventure.
2006-08-08 09:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The RL boyfriend I had before I met my husband introduced me to the Internet (this was back in 1993, mind you - the Web was a BRAND NEW SHINY THING then, you whippersnappers!). We'd both log in to the same MUSH and hang out and chat during the times we couldn't be together.
We broke up because he met another girl online. I went hardcore PSYCHO EX on his @$$, 'cause he's the one to whom I gave my virginity, so I (wrongly) convinced myself that he'd just been after me for the sex. But as much as I hated the guy now, I couldn't make myself stop logging in to the same MUSH - after all, I had other friends there, and it was easy enough to block pages from my now-ex.
About a year later, I got into an argument with somebody on that MUSH, and left for another room in a fit of pique. And one of my guy friends who'd been in that room starting asking me if I was okay, and came and found me and cheered me up. And I got that dangerous feeling in the pit of my stomach that said I was gonna fall in love with him if I didn't stop myself. So I did stop myself for several months (and it turns out he did too, for his own reasons). Eventually, though, and probably inevitably, we both decided to give it a shot. And it worked. I moved in with him the next year, and proposed to him that next spring (much to his irritation - he'd wanted to be the one who asked!). We got married three years later and have been together ever since.
So not only did I find a bigger and better fish, but I found him BECAUSE of my now-ex!
2006-08-08 16:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met this guy. He was cute, friendly, f*ckable. Everything i thought i wanted. Well, 3 years of marrage, me going blind, and having 2 kids made him start to cheat on me. I went downhill mentally and became severly depressed. He constantly told me it was my fault and that i needed help.
4 years of marrage and we got divorced. 1 year later i met someone and we clicked instantly. My marrage had taught me what to stay away from in men and what i really needed to be looking for. I have found that in my current relationship.
My boyfriend is the most incredible man ever. There are other fish in the sea.
Keep a few things in mind when hunting for a new fish:
If they are willing to do it FOR you then they are willing to do it TO you.
Stay away from guys that want to cash a large check when they cant do it from thier own bank.
Dont put up with guys that are willing to throw trash into your car.
Its not about what attracts you to a guy, its really about what you are willing to put up with and live with in a guy....looks come along with that idea.
Good hunting finding yours!
2006-08-08 16:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no actually i'm not 12. its a true quote. just because you dont believe in it doesnt mean i cant. but i know how you feel in this situation, and sorry that you're in it. there is definitely other fish in the sea, considering there are millions of people that you haven't even met yet. i'm sure one of them would love to be with you.
2006-08-08 23:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wuts the question?
2006-08-08 16:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋