Apparently she's in high school studying Law and other Law-related subjects and i s good at them but.....she can't deal with being shy
2006-08-08 09:15:52 · 13 answers · asked by Georgina 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
I work in the Law system, so perhaps I can help.
Prosecution and defence lawyers are required to speak in Court, but Courts are regulated environments, wherein the presiding authority (The Judge, or the Bench of Lay Magistrates), will ensure that Legal Advocates will be able to speak with impunity and without threat. In the UK, a person who impedes the business of a Court can be sentenced to immediate custody in a cell, and also fined, or even imprisoned for up to six months. Courts also employ Security Professionals, who have the muscle and authority to ensure that nobody is intimidated in the Court environment.
Being a lawyer involves contact with people - if you are hired as a defence advocate, you will have to meet your client and discuss the case. You will also have to stand up in Court and present your defense on behalf of your client.
If your sister is really intent upon a career in Law, but cannot face public advocacy, then she should look to become a Court Legal Advisor (In the UK, known as the Clerk of the Court). She will not have to convince the Court, Jury , Judge or Magistrate apropos the burden of proof. She will have to advise the Court on points of Law and Procedure, but these acts are purely advisory and can be presented as plain fact.
2006-08-08 09:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two things to say to this:
1) There are many types of law that don't require lots of personal interaction. You think law is all litigation; i.e., trying cases in the courtroom. But there are other fields which don't require such an outgoing personality.
2) Have her try out for the theatre. Even a small part will get her on stage, and this will go a long way toward making her more comfortable. A "Public Speaking" course will help as well.
Good luck.
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2006-08-08 09:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shyness is a form of anxiety. If she wants to be a lawyer, I'm guessing she's cool with reading. Suggest to her that she takes out some books from the library about anxiety, it might help her understand where her shyness is coming from.
Going to see a counselor is a good idea, and will probably have longer lasting effects than self-help type books. I had major problems with social anxiety during my first year of university. I went to the campus counselors, and they gave me workbooks and lots of information about my disorder.
2006-08-08 11:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by Ashleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once she goes to college she should join several organizations. Maybe even a service sorority. Not only does this look good on any job application, but she will be forcing herslef into social situations in which she will have no choice but to socialize. By constantly surrounding herself with new people she will slowly gain the speaking confidence she needs to be a lawyer. Make sure she doesn't just join, but actively participates and runs for higher positions within the organizations
2006-08-08 09:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by to the beat in my head 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had stage fright, which is different from being shy. But public speaking taught me a lot this year. Perhaps your sister should take a public speaking course; the more times she speak in front of others, it will be second nature to her. Trust me, if I can become a bit comfortable talking around people I know she can do it. Give her some encouragement too, have her speak at parties, family dinners, etc. :)
2006-08-08 10:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all lawyers attend court sessions. Many work behind the scenes, especially in corporate law, where the focus is writing contracts and researching contractual issues.
2006-08-08 10:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by lcraesharbor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all lawyers have to stand to up in court - if she wants to do that then get her to go to a debating society. If not tell her not to worry and concentrate on her studies.
2006-08-08 09:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her enrolled in an acting class, the court room is one big drama set with actors playing the part of lawyers.
2006-08-08 09:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by A G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could look into Toastmasters - they have weekly meetings and learn public speaking/presentation skills - and how to get over the fear of public speaking. Check out http://www.toastmasters.org/ to find a group in your community.
2006-08-08 09:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a community group like Lions , Toastmasters etc. They will coach you.
2006-08-10 17:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋