how do u persuade men to do whatever u want and buy u anything u want?

Question

brother, dad, cousin, teacher, guys at school, boyfriend.
i would like to know how to win arguments with them, or even avoid arguments.to get wutever i want. to get a date. to do things for me. tend to my silly needs and wants. and to never look stupid in the process.
by the way, im pretty cute

Answer 1

I recommend you go do some research on negotiation and persuasion, buy some books on the subject, and do some reading. As for the present moment, a technique you can use right now to get others to be more amenable to your desires is to always answer this question for the other person: What's In It For Me?
You have to show people that it is in their best interest to agree with you, deal with you, and obey you. What is in it for them? What do you have of value to offer them?
If you are a dime-piece, most guys will give you anything you want just to be with you, be seen with you, and to get in your pants, so you just have to play the game right. Even if you aren't a dime you can still use the p u s s y to your advantage, I'm sure.

Other things that might be in it for them would be gifts or favors, but you offer these ahead of time to obligate them later on. You might have a social network they'd like access to, or other things of value that you offer. Just make sure that you can show them how it is in their best interest to give you what you want.

Never win through arguments, only through actions. Arguing makes you look weak and ordinary. If you want to avoid looking stupid in the process, remember: Speak clearly and audibly, and MOST IMPORTANTLY Think Before You Speak. Never insult someone's appearance or taste, generally two very touchy areas.
Never be too quick to add your two cents into a discussion, listen to everyone else's side first. This will paint you as empathetic and as a good listener, and nothing makes people like you faster than letting them talk about theirself and their own concerns. Plus, while you are doing this they are revealing their personal psychology to you...they are going to tell you everything you need to convince them to do what you want. So you got to LISTEN much more than you speak.

Never ask a person for anything. Instead offer them the opportunity to do what you want them to do anyways. Keep in mind the predicatable nature of human beings to move towards pleasure and avoid pain, as well as their ability to know when they're being bribed. You want to come across as sincere and friendly, not manipulative and controlling. Also, the same tactics won't work on everyone. Persuasion is a dynamic process, not a cookie-cutter type of formula that you use with everyone. Pay attention to people as individuals, and insinuate your desires from there.

This is just the tip of the iceberg of possible techniques you can use to get more of what you want. Nothing that anyone says on here, including my own answer, will ever take the place of doing your own research. There is nothing more important than your own learning, it is an investment in yourself. I'd recommend you start by buying some of Robert Cialdini's books, and some other books on persuasion. Become a master of it, and you will hold the key to people's hearts and minds.

You can email for a list of books that I have found to be very useful on this subject.

Answer 2

You could win arguments by being smart and avoid arguments by learning good communication skills. You could get what you want by getting an education and a job, and most men will respect you for that and find you more attractive than the manipulative, lazy floozy you apparently aspire to be.

If you work your way up to manager at McD's you can order the male workers to do "wutever" you want, but you might look stupid in the uniform.

Being "cute" will get you some things in life, no doubt, but if you rely only on that you will eventually end up looking stupid and/or pathetic.

Your question disrespects not only yourself but also the men in your life that you want to manipulate. Grow up.

Answer 3

hehe, the 1st answer above is funny. I suppose that would work for a while. But you are also demeaning your self worth.

Your intension is not good to begin with, you seem to be a very selfish person. Therefore the result you will get will hurt you in the end.

You sound pretty young, y not ask your parents to buy you things. If material things are what your after, get a job when you are old enough.

If you want people to do nice things for you, y not treat them the way you want to be treated and expect nothing in return. Pretty soon, you will be surounded by people who will truly care about you. Thus, do nice things for you.

Answer 4

If she wants children really bad she shouldn't be with him. The reality is only if she can't envision herself without children for the rest of her life she'll be unsatisfied. Many women come into relationships expecting the man to change and they don't. So many men go into relationships thinking their partner will always be the same; then they get older and just plain b***y. It just lands up with 2 people unhappy and disappointed with each other,because their both envisioning two different plans for each others life.

Answer 5

You certainly don't do it with bad spelling, punctuation and grammar. This makes you look "stupid in the process."

Why don't you instead work on having the skills, education and employment to get what you want yourself, rather than relying on these guys? I bet you'll be even more attractive to such people in the long run.

Answer 6

Grow up Princess Tippy Toes!

Answer 7

There's no such thing. But I can see someone claiming to write a book or have a dvd or tape showing techniques for things like that. Don't believe any of it. Use your commonsense.

Answer 8

if it's your dad -- give him your big eyes and pouting faces
if it's your bro -- offer him something in return
if it's a guy -- show him some legs

by the way, you're pretty cute???? You said it so casually!

Answer 9

I hope I never encounter a worthless sack of potatoes like you in my life. Ever.

The question you ask makes you sound like a common whore.

Answer 10

Since you're pretty cute, you can persuade them. Use it for your advantage.