she 15 will the doctor tell her parents shes having an abortion?

Question

ok...my g/f thinks she pregnant cuz she saw alil *** on the outer layer of the condom...the condom was pretty and i do know some of my *** was almost at the open part of the condom but i dont think any came out. do u think the *** is from her or me? and if she is pregnant if she goes to the doctor for a abortion will the doctor tell the parents?

Answer 1

hmmm doesn't sound like she is, and yet it is too soon to tell. Tell her to calm down and if she misses her period then I would start to freak out. As for the abortion it all depends on the state that you live in. goodluck

Answer 2

She needs to determine pregnancy before worrying about whether or not to get an abortion.

As for notifying her parents I think it may be the law in some states. If there were complications from the procedure, her parents would need to know what occured...it's a tough line because there's also the issue of privacy and her perhaps wanting an abortion where her folks might try to 'force' her into going through the pregnancy.

Take it one step at a time...and use better condoms or add spermacide or get her on the pill or something additional...

...she's too young to be having sex because she's definitely too young to be worrying about pregnancy... *shakes head sadly*

Answer 3

I am not sure if she would be pregnant but if this just happened within 72 hours you wouldnt even have to worry about getting an abortion. All you would have to do is go down to the local planned parent hood and get a morning after pill. This is not technically a form of abortion it is just preventing the egg from attaching to the walls of the uterus. The whole thing can be done with out her parents ever even knowing. Good luck.

Answer 4

Depends on where you are in the world:

World's Abortion Laws:

http://www.crlp.org/pub_fac_abortion_laws.html

United States abortion laws:
http://www.coolnurse.com/abortion_laws.htm

State by state breakdown:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:USMinorAbortionLawsMap.png

Hopefully your girlfriend is not pregnant and you won't have to deal with this difficult decision. You may be surprised, your parents may be supportive of your decision. But either way if you continue having sex, please continue using those condoms and consider a second backup method, such as the pill.

Please do not follow the advice telling you to wash the area with soap or douche, that will NOT help and soap can be irritating and drying to the vagina.

Answer 5

Okay first of all females do produce a little discharge during intercourse that can resemble sperm.She is most likely not pregnant.The two of you should do some research! You dont sound like you know too much about sex which could be dangerous.She is not pregnant,and if she were an abortion would be confidential

Answer 6

well she is only 15 she has to tell her parents so she can get the abortion one of her parents have to be with her. So she would have to tell them unless you want to have a baby at the age 15 which isn't really that smart . maybe she should get on some kind of birth control,

Answer 7

There is no turning back son no matter what the circumstance you have to take responsibility for ya actions No problem is too big for God I personally think that you should marry here anyway cause you will than always have something with ya and not somebody else dirty second Asumind that she's not already been screwed...Godspeed kid...peace

Answer 8

it depends on the laws in your state - they're all different. call a local doctor and ask them, anonymously, what the law is regarding her age and informing the parents.

but don't go to an abortion doctor out of the yellow pages, alot of them are actually posers looking to stop abortions. get a referral from a trusted doctor.

Answer 9

could be from either one of you. I wouldn't panic just yet...if it's just shortly after (same day), tell her to wash the area thoroughly with soap. Not 100% effective, but better than nothing.
There's a really good chance that it's just a scare.
If it's not, TELL HER PARENTS (AND YOURS). They'll be pissed, but a lot less so than if you guys go and abort without telling them, and they may actually help you out.

Answer 10

your g/f is a minor. she cannot have any surgical procedure without adult consent. However, I would not encourage abortion because i have actually had 3 friends who have had them and they deeply regret it with all their heart. There are so many families that would love to adopt a baby out there. If she is pregnant you could give a wonderful gift to someone!!!!!!!!!!