my brother hates everyone. hes mean and fat, and useless. hes 24 and still iving in his parents house with his stupid g/f
he quit drinking. hes been in 17 car wrecks. i just want to know why god would keep him on this eart
im staring to think there is no godd
2006-08-08 08:32:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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2006-08-08 09:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by AMY 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you really hate him a lot. Maybe you should cut him some slack..
By the way, I've been reading through all your questions and answers.. it sounds like you're anorexic to me. I hope you can get some help for it soon. You're just 15, don't worry about your weight so much!
Maybe that's why you say your brother is fat and useless. Don't ever think just because you or someone has some extra fat that they are useless. I wouldn't want God to give up on me just because of a few extra pounds, and I'm sure glad he's not that shallow!
2006-08-08 08:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by email_2_nat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you noticed anything good that he has done? Maybe he doesn't want anyone to know that he has done some good deeds because people might know him as mean and whatever, but just try to focus on what good stuff he does...He quit drinking, so that's good. Maybe that is why he still steps foot in this Earth. Just telll him to go on a dite, because it's also BAD if you're fat. It means you're lazy, and being lazy is in fact, a SIN. God wasn't lazy, he was energetic, so if you're lazy, it shows that you're not appreciating what god created(you!) so as you become lazier and eat more, you're more likely to get heart attacks and other diseases caused by bad eating habits and laziness. So help him get on a diet, and telll his girlfriend to help him too. it's much better to excercise when you're doing it with somebody else. Hope I helped =)
2006-08-08 08:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by lalala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I"m thinking the real hate is the hate that's in your heart. You should work on that. There is a God and he loves your brother. Just as I'm sure he's probably not happy with some of the things your brother does, I'm sure he's not happy with what you carry around in YOUR heart. Think about it.
2006-08-08 08:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by tammyb752001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pure Luck!
When you start thinking like that - like why did that drunk driver live and the mom and baby die - questioning God is normal. Depending on your faith you either turn from religion or go seek religious counselling.
Good luck and hope your brother grows up, I don't know what I would do without by brother and sister - love them very much and it took a long time but consider them my friends.
2006-08-08 08:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by not_in_it_4_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
God will remove him one day, even if that means he will be thrown into Hell. My brother calls me fat and I am only 150 pounds. Everyone else weighs like 180 for fifteen. I'm very lean and not fat, but when he ticks me off, I call out his pimple... Chuckie. Chuckie blushes alot.
Xiriah
2006-08-08 08:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone's here for a reason.
Maybe it's not apparent to you, but I'm sure his girlfriend would have something to say about his not being here anymore.
God has a purpose for everyone. Just try not to focus on the negative about your brother.
2006-08-08 08:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by braks_gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kind of mean to say that, don't you think? There is a God but from what I'm guessing, your brother isn't as bad as he sounds.
2006-08-08 08:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a god. He loves everyone no matter what they have done or what they will do. No matter how bad the person. Is. Just think about it.
2006-08-08 08:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by Midnight Moolight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's here for a reason. You need to help him out. It sounds like he could use some encouragement. There is a God. You need to be talking to him and not us.
2006-08-08 08:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by armwrestlemania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well God has a plan for everyone. and it obviously wasn't in his plan to take your brother away so soon. look inward to find some peace. because no matter how much you say you hate him. if he does pass. you won't know what to do with yourself. i know first hand, my brother was murdered.
2006-08-08 08:37:39 · answer #11 · answered by Dawn R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋