What if a guy tells you that you can't be a couple just really close friends. then turns around and gets jealous when you talk to other guys. He says his apoliges and do the same thing and when i wanna be more than friends he turns me down and still treats me like were together please tell me what does this mean is it love? or something totally different!
2006-08-08 08:30:03 · 10 answers · asked by Mill 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
He's controlling. Moron.
2006-08-08 08:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by urewierdandimnot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy cannot commit, but is jealous if you talk to other guys? He sounds controlling, not loving. It is called "dog in the manger". He doesn't want you deeply in his life, but he does not want you to have anyone else.
Let your feelings for him go, and don't hang around with him, especially when you talk to other guys. His jealousy may be magnified as a result. Or, without you there, he may just realize he misses you more than he knows.
2006-08-08 15:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Pegasus90 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but that isnt love. Are you sleeping with him? Because if you are then that maybe the reason why he wants you there for. If you arent then he needs to get a life and stop acting like he owns you. Believe me when you are in love there is no such thing. Tell him to get his act together and stop playing games. Good luck!!!
2006-08-08 15:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is just seriously insecure with him self and want his cake and eat it too? There is more to this story; how many times have you had sex? Perhaps stop acting like you like him, avoid him at all cost then he is sure to run into your arms.
2006-08-08 15:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's love I think that he just being totally controlling and jealous.
2006-08-08 15:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by wife&mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys sometimes feel like yes yr a friend but still they get Territorial like yr theirs even though yr just friends, but it might pay to talk to him more about this. you'll find more about relationships love and dating on this site
2006-08-08 15:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's totally playing with you. He doesn't want you. Your better than him. It's not love. Get rid of him fast.
2006-08-08 15:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by armwrestlemania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing games with you.
Dump him and move on. Easier said than done, but necessary.
2006-08-08 15:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he's afraid to commit to you but still has feelings.
2006-08-08 15:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by tito_loves_the_sun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, he doesn't want to be involved sexually, but is saving you for when he is older and can marry you.
2006-08-08 15:37:54 · answer #10 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋