I live on a block wit very two faced friends but I shouldn't say their my friend. I met this really cute boy and all the gurlies from my block liked him but he likie me. I had sex wit him and he didn't pressure me. Everyone found out about it and some of them black mail me so I bought them things and let them borrow my video games. I went on vacation and my mother keeps calling me telling me she's hearing that I have been having sex around the place and let this one boy eat me out. That was a lie. And there were many other rumors but only one was true. I told my mother the truth even though it was hard and she might kill me but I didn't want to keep secrets from her much less lie to her. Should I have denied it even though she would have found out or did I do the wrond thing?
2006-08-08 08:13:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You did the right thing by admitting the truth to your mother. Don't ever lie to her. It will just hurt you in the future. My mom was killed in a car accident when I was 19 years old, my brother was 15, and my sister was 9. Be thankful you have your mother. Be truthful and respecful to her, and work on your relationship together.
With that being said, you should not be having sex at your age. There are diseases and always pregnancy. You don't want to get a disease that you will have for the rest of your life, do you? And you don't want a child that you will have to take care of. Please wait until you are more mature. I was 20 years old, and it was on my wedding night. My husband and I saved ourselves for marriage. We have been married for 3 years, and we are thankful that we waited until we were married.
2006-08-08 08:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom always deserves to hear the truth as much as you need her to know it.
That you told her is a courageous thing to do, I'm sure you worried that you would disappoint her.
I don't think you know a single adult who hasn't got some mistake in their past that they would be reluctant to share.
We are after all, all human.
Go forward from this, and listen to your mom, she really is your best friend, and she loves you more than anyone else does.
2006-08-08 08:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus tell her sayin that your friends are jus threathenin you n blackmailing you...
jus becoz 'make out some story...' n than you call him names, n thats why the rumours spread.
as for the guy u had sex with. he is SO NOT a gentleman if he is tellin details to everyone you know about what both of you did behind close doors..
so jus spread rumours back sayin that you rather sit on your thumb than having another round with a small dicky dead-fish.
(since you are already so well known in sch for the wrong thing.)
2006-08-08 08:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by tattoo babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do the right thingy by having sex but you DID do the right thing by telling the truth!
2006-08-08 08:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by brookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur caught tell the truth but if u can get out of it lie u head off.
2006-08-08 08:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by KA-BOOM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u did the right thing by telling her the truth becouse she would have found out soon or a later
2006-08-08 08:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at first I would try to deny it but then it wouldn't be no use because she'll find out so mitsle wel tell the truth
2006-08-08 08:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by caramel_hispanic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TEll her THe TrUth
2006-08-08 08:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_LILLY_100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would denied it especially if i wasnt supposed to be having sex!!! And gurl dont be letting those two faced lil gurls run you over!!!
2006-08-08 08:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by ♫~*neidre*~♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the truth
2006-08-08 08:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by butterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋