we've been together off and on all year he's always showed he cares and got into fights 4 me i REALLY love him he is my everything i love him with all my heart and soul how do i get him back i mean he won't even talk to me every other time that we've broken up we've agreed to be friends and we did this time to but he won't ever talk this time what did i do wrong ??? HElP ME OUT HERE
2006-08-08 07:50:58 · 15 answers · asked by Danielle D 1 in News & Events ➔ Current Events
Just an observation. If he really cares for you why would he leave? What makes you think it's you that did anything wrong? Don't push getting him back too hard. He may not be worth getting back. If he's not at least open as to why he left what makes you think he'll be any more open IF he comes back? It sounds like he's not satisfied with having you. That tells me you shouldn't be satisfied having him.
Besides boys are like computers. About the time you get used to one it dumps on you . You can waqste your time trying to fix it and you'll have an old one. Or you can go out and get a better one for just a little more.
2006-08-08 08:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by namsaev 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You did nothing wrong. And if you stalk or hound him, or do something where you are obviously "trying to get him back", you will just push him farther away.
You can't make someone want to be with you, no matter how hard you try. You can only put yourself out there, love them completely, and hope they feel the same way. Give him the space he is looking for, and if he wants you back he will come back.
Say hi when you see him, but don't fuss over him, or cry because you miss him or anything like that.
AND: someday you will either get back together, or you will find someone even more wonderful.
2006-08-08 07:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by sheristeele 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, he's merely lower than pressure out. draw close in there. purchase him a small bouquet of flora, make his popular meal and convey it with the help of, that is a loving element of do. Make him paper snowflakes and string them on his window and put up slightly Christmas tree in his place of work to cheer him. purchase some rub down oil and say you favor to end with the help of his position and delivers him a back rub. Sneak into his abode and write that you want him on his reflect in red lipstick. If he's no longer responding to his texts, take a horny images of your self and deliver him that at the same time as he's at artwork. He may like that. Be functional about his artwork situation.. men choose a muse. Write him slightly love word and tuck it in his briefcase for him to discover. And maximum of all, in case you recognize he's the only, under no circumstances let him bypass.
2016-11-23 16:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by yancy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up child. "My boyfriend cares about me because he fights." Real mature. He doesn't want you. He wants nothing to do with you. It's time you move on and start learning that life is about learning from your mistakes. You can't even keep a stable relationship. Off an on for a year? How pathetic. Get over your little crush and start learning from your mistakes.
2006-08-08 08:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he broke up with you, he obviously does not feel the same way about you. Stop wasting time on him and get into a relationship where you are both happy. Remember that there ARE other people out there to meet. Enjoy dating and experience other people.
2006-08-08 07:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by dgrams2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there are too many guys out there who can take his place - in fact if you stick with this guy you will wish you didn't. Heartbreak is never nice but it's part of growing up. Suck it up, get over it and move on.
2006-08-08 08:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when things happen like they have you have to accept that he is not that into you. to try and get him back would be a waste of your time and the friend thing never never works out. i know it hurts but time will fix it. just move on. nothing wrong with you its just that these things happen. good luck to you
2006-08-08 08:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We could probably be more help if we knew WHY you broke up this time. Just be nice to him, be sure you don't badmouth him, and keep trying to talk to him. Don't throw yourself at him or beg him to come back though.
2006-08-08 07:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by startwinkle05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious he wants to move on without you. you can't make someone love you...remember that. Move on with your life and concentrate that energy you have on " getting on with your life" . There are more people with what your are looking for than this fellow. That's advise I would give my daughter.
2006-08-08 08:17:57 · answer #9 · answered by Rodney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well um u should should really show that u care or give him something he would want u know what im talkin bout.
2006-08-08 07:56:22 · answer #10 · answered by missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋