my best friend is an idiot she keeps hitting me!What should i do?

Question

Shes mental i feel so bad for her please help!!!

Answer 1

let her know how you feel.....ask her why she's hitting you.....if she is mean about it then tell her if she does it again you'll leave....you can also talk with her parents and learn more about how "mental" she is and they can also talk with her

remember.....if she needs you as a friend that badly...she won't keep hitting you.....and if she keeps hitting you...you don't need her.....you can find plenty of best friends that won't hit you...like me...just let her know how you feel and ask why she does it

Answer 2

You say she's "mental" do you mean she's actually mentally retarded, or just a crazy girl? If it's the latter, tell her you love her but can't be her friend anymore because you don't believe in violence. And follow thru - cut her off completely for at least a few weeks - after that, if you feel like giving her another chance then go ahead. You could also offer to help her get into therapy.

I had a friend growing up who had fetal alcohol syndrome, she looked normal but her brain didn't develop properly, so she was very slow in certain ways. She also was raised in a physically abusive home, so she didn't understand that it was NOT ok to hit people when she was mad at them (and she got mad alot, because she could never understand why she was "different" - very frustrating for her). While I NEVER condone violence, at the time I found that sometimes, the only way to get her to stop hitting me was to hit her back. She was much bigger than me (same age, just bigger), so I couldn't really injure her - it just scared her. If I had the same problem now, I would deal with it differently. I would sit her down and talk to her about it, and tell her that while I loved her and wanted to be her friend, I couldn't handle being hit by her. I'd tell her that if she hit me, I would leave right away and not hang out with her for at least a day (a day is a long time for someone with a young child's mind). Then I would call her after a day and ask her if she wanted to apologize, and if she did, I would give her another chance. Even though I know I would have to do this over and over again, I'm pretty sure that if I had tried this, and really been consistent about it, it would have worked eventually.

Answer 3

Tell her if she keeps hitting you, you will have to hit her back. When the occasion rises, do it with enough force to get her attention and let her know that is why you don't want her hitting you. It can hurt and it is irritating.

Answer 4

Have you ever seen the "Friends" episode when Joey has a new girlfriend and she keeps hitting him...? The g/f hits Rachel and Rachel hits her back, the g/f realizes it hurts to be hit!

Answer 5

tell her the next time she hits you,you wont be a friend to her any more.don`t feel bad.can`t you ignore this person?or is she so close to you ?if i were you i would run like hell from a peson who abused me.you can find friends elsewhere,somebody sane who would treat you with kindness and respect.from mikhal in israel.

Answer 6

Do you no why she hit's you? Is she on something you don't know about? Maybe she's going through the same thing and is taking it out on you.

Answer 7

you calling her an idiot when she is mental is no sort of a friend. it seems like you need help.

Answer 8

talk to her parents ask if they can help her stop hitting you or just stay away from her. Or just be friendly to her and ask her to stop hitting you. Good Luck!!!

Answer 9

well tell her how you feel and if she still hits you try explaining so she understands you. ask someone for help in the medical profession on how to tell her.

Answer 10

Talk to her tell her how you feel and mean it. Explain to her what you dislike and if this continues Separate your self and give her some space and she will know she is doing something wrong.