Why some women when they get married stop paying attention to their looks?

Answer 1

Women in our culture are set up to think that pleasing everyone is their duty as a woman. When alot of woman get married, they are so caught up in this task that they forget about themselves. We shouldn't lose ourselves in others - EVER! We have to take care of ourselves so that we are able to take care of others, but never NEVER forget about Number 1 - YOU!

Answer 2

There can be no perfect answer to this question because everyone is different. Some reasons may be:

1. You settled...instead of putting the effort into staying true to yourself enough to find Mr. Right, and you are passive-aggressively trying to be as ugly as you can so he'll reject you...so you can be the victim and win sympathy from friends/family/self, and then try to find some other loser who is your co-dependant enabler...

2. Because the competition is over, you've got him.
3. You are depressed, marriage isn't what you thought it would be.
4. You have a new infant..it'll pass.
5. You work all the time, take some time off.
6. He loves you just the way you are and prefers you in a more "natural" state, so why go all out.
7. You married together your debt and can't afford to look like an archetypal American "Barbie" female anymore...or conversely he stops looking like Ken and starts looking, acting and smelling like a silver-back gorilla.
8. He's turns out to be abusive, unfaithful, unsupportive or an underminer...emotionally or physically.
9. You've recently moved or changed jobs/homes and don't have your support system in tact.
10. Your husband turns out to be a shallow hypocrite who did, in fact, marry you just for your well-coiffed good looks and hot bod and also chose you because you made him look good, and it has just dawned on you what a terrible mistake you have made, so why the hell not let it go???

Answer 3

Aw, you sound so candy! the only advice i will grant you is to no longer stare at ladies in paying for department stores, in basic terms look, because you staring might scare them away! you purely have an attraction to legs and ft, a 'fetish'. that is thoroughly established to be interested in something you come across thrilling or arousing. as an occasion, i'm prepared on blue eyes, and that is not correct who they're that's the 1st element I observe some boy. So i does no longer concern approximately that. additionally, i do no longer think of any female might suggestions being informed that they have stunning legs and ft! you are able to have greater self belief, and perchance go and communicate to those ladies your see in paying for department stores wish my advice can help you :)

Answer 4

Maybe because they think that because they have the man of their dreams or something they don't have to look good for them anymore which is very sad I think. If I was a man and my wife stopped caring about her looks once we are married I would be so dissapointed.

Answer 5

you'll soon find out when you become a wife, a mother, an employee, a church member, a girlfriend, a daughter, an aunt, a sister, a sister in law, etc. For me it easily became about everyone else and not myself. Wearing all those different hats can easily put exercise and eating right on the back burner.

Answer 6

Laziness

Answer 7

I dont think they stop, not until they have kids, i know that i didnt, but after kids it seems like when you start trying to do some thing for your self the kids come running not all of us have nannys and hair and make up crew. but as for just being married i never stopped.

Answer 8

THEY DO PAY ATTENTION.

SOMETIMES YOU GET TOO FAT AFTER HAVING A BABY OR TWO ESPECIALLY IF YOUR FAMILY GENE IS PRONE TO BEING FAT! YOU CAN EXERCISE ALL YOU WANT BUT STILL FAT!

IN LIFE YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO ACCEPT YOURSELF AND IF YOU DO LOOK GOOD YOU ARE LUCKY!

EVEN IF YOU PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR LOOKS BEAUTY WILL EVENTUALLY FADE

SO IF YOU MARRY MAKE SURE YOUR HUSBAND WILL LOVE YOU FOR UGLY AND IN DEATH DO WE PART!

SOME PEOPLE TURN UGLY SO SHE CAN DIVORCE HER CRAPPY UNGRATEFUL HUSBAND!! SHE TAKES ALL THE MONEY GO AHEAD HAVE A MAKE OVER TRANSFORM INTO A BEAUTIFUL SWAN AND FIND A BETTER MAN!

Answer 9

Because once they catch their man, they feel like they don't have to keep looking nice anymore! That it's fine now. I got him! He doesn't care what I look like! WRONG!
Men love for women to look nice. It's a compliment to them when we do. It says to them that we care enough to dress up for them.
Same goes for men too! I have seen some grungy-looking men in my time, believe me, when I go and visit my married friends.

Answer 10

It is my educated guess that it's because the spouse has stopped paying attention to them.