Can anyone help with Friend Troubles?

Question

I have a friend and me and her are really really close. She has two other sisters who I am also friends with. It's just that I'm getting really annoyed with her lately. She does the stupidest little things that annoy me so so so much. Now me and her other sister are getting closer and I hang out with her a lot. It's just that whenever I go over their house to hang out with her sister she annoys me even more. I feel like if I keep going over there I am going to snap but I still want to hang out with her sister. What do I do??

Answer 1

I know this story all too well. I never told my friend how much she annoyed me, and I just let it all boil up inside me. By the time I realized I was ready to move on, I had fallen in love for the first (and last) time, and she blamed all of our friendship problems on him. In reality I had just outgrown her and never told her (and I liked her older sister better because she was more mature). We spent the last year of high school acting awkward around each other. We didn't even really talk at graduation. My suggestion would be for you to be honest with her. Trying to spare her feelings will only make it worse. Tell her that you still want to be friends but that sometimes she gets on your nerves (be specific if you can) and you think it'd be good if you spent some healthy time apart here and there. If you're truly her friend, you'll be honest with her. If she's truly your friend, she take your words to heart and you'll both work through it together.

Answer 2

It may be that you are spending TOO much time with her. Maybe you should just distance yourself for a little while instead of loosing a good friend by telling her that she annoys you. Take a week or two "off" and see how things go then before you say anything that may hurt her feelings.

Answer 3

talk to her about it, if your a real friend you and her will survive this, maybe shes doing these things cause something is bothering her or she wants attention. just hang in there.