There was this boy Andie. He is on yahoo. And i lied to him pretending i was older and i pretended i had what he wanted. then i told him the truth. now i think he hates me. and he said i was a freaky rapisit. And i'm not. Olease don't believe that. It's that im just younger than all of you and you guys know more than me so i try to fit in. please help me. - tears -
2006-08-08 07:44:46 · 15 answers · asked by Lil' Mama 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
Honey, first of all don't feel bad for other people--older or otherwise--knowing more than you do. If you're very young, that would certainly explain a lot of it. We've *all* been in your shoes; trust us. Just keep trying to learn.
And it may not be *true.* Many people come on here sounding very wise and confident, but they are often the ones who have the narrowest minds and the least interest in accuracy. Also, you may know a lot more than most of us do on subjects of real interest to you.
Nobody here can answer all the questions knowledgeably and intelligently. In fact some can't seem to answer *any* of them intelligently, or don't care to. And if you're just here for fun or to learn, not putting anybody down, and not making stuff up when people really need *good* answers, I don't see any harm.
As for the rapist thing, I don't think anyone thinks that about you; maybe not even Andie, whether he says so or not. He very likely is just feeling hurt and resentful about you leading him on, and/or lying to him. If he is also very young, he may not be emotionally able to handle an apology or the truth you just gave us, but it seems worth a try, to me. It might make both of you feel better, and you'll gain self esteem by correcting your mistake.
It's nothing life-altering, though it may feel like it, right now. Oh, the dumb mistakes we all make!
If you sincerely feel bad about misleading him, which is a sign of compassion, I suggest you tell him how sorry you feel, and also what you just told us, about trying to fit in -- it sounds to me like it's about an insecurity in you. If he's old enough to understand that, it may help him feel for you, as I did when you mentioned trying to fit in.
I hope nothing I'm saying sounds like a lecture... but I also hope you learned something about deceit and how much trouble and pain it can cause. Good luck, Anne.
2006-08-08 18:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by Question Mark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are always consequences to your actions. When we lie, we break a person's trust. This is always very hard to restore. The first thing you need to do is confess your sin to God. He has promised to forgive you. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness" (1st John 1:9). Have you trusted the Lord Jesus as your personal Savior? If not, do that now. If you have, the blood that He shed on the cross washes away ALL your sins. Confess your sin to God; ask Him to help you be truthful from now on; thank Him for His forgiveness; and move on in your walk with the Lord.
Ask Andie to forgive you. He should. Whether he does or not is a different story. No matter what, God loves you. TTYL
2006-08-09 11:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are deceitful there is always a consequence. I will say his response was way off. If you want to be taken seriously tell the truth. This forum is not a place to meet people other then to ask and answer questions. There is nothing wrong with being young, and wanting to learn just take it slow. I admire you for telling the truth..
2006-08-08 07:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by roeskats 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
every action has a reaction.
it does not pay to try to be something that you arent, no matter how hard you try to fit in.
it never works when you pretend or lie. you have to cover up lies with lies and it gets worse and worse.
hopefully you learn something. BE YOURSELF. there are lots of different people in the world. some are going to like you and some arent. you cant please everybody so you need to try to please yourself.
and being yourself is what you are best at. if you just be yourself, then most will like you.
2006-08-14 09:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok theres no need to fit in older people do like younger people but you need to be yourself. Its when young poeple act like that (try to be older n fit in) that we dnt liek them n stuff but its all good tell him to quit hatin n BE YOURSELF!
2006-08-08 08:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by preciouz_latina08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is just be yourself everyone wants to be like other ppl or just wnat to act older especially when your young. you'll see when you get older you will see that pretending to be someone older or someone your not was not worth it.
2006-08-15 16:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Marie F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy yourself as you are. As, maybe, you found out, things get more serious the older you get.
2006-08-15 02:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get hysterical - just cool it.
In the future stop trying to be someone your not.
2006-08-08 08:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him..most likely he lied too...you never can be sure who you are talking to on the net.Be careful darlin!
2006-08-16 04:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
live up life but no need to lie...just be cool, honest, and don't abuse the internet. its a good tool.
2006-08-14 03:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by Dj Loopz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋