We haven't had sex in about 4 days. He just pushes my hands away each night when we are sleeping together. Should I start to worry.
2006-08-08 07:43:01 · 18 answers · asked by sunny d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
4 DAYS!!!
i dont think you have much to worry about..... really.
when you live together you have to be considerate if the other person is tired or has had a tough week/day.
dont pressurize the poor dude. and there is no need for you to feel rejected either.
thats just how real life goes. its actually a complete myth that ALL men want sex all the time. sometimes this myth puts too much pressure on the ones that dont.
2006-08-08 07:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does not sound right. Unless you became so unattractive in the last 4 days, he has a problem and you need to sit him down and talk about it now. Be prepared though, guys don't usually talk about sex as easy as girls do. Let him know that you feel bad and that he needs to communicate his feelings and not bury them. If he won't open up to you, then you have a problem and need to look at the bigger picture. It may even mean moving on and saying goodbye to him. Remamber--you only have this one life to live and need to do it the best you can-starting today. Good luck to you!!
2006-08-08 07:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that he is now in the "uncertain" stage and possibly wondering if he has done the right thing, DON'T WORRY, Don't put any pressure on him physically, when you are in bed, turn to the opposite side of him and make a few heavy breathing noises as if you were enjoying thoughts, he'll get interested!!
2006-08-08 07:52:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time i have ever been that way with a g/f is when i thought they where cheating on me because everytime they wanted to have sex it made me feel like im not needed or specail to them because they she bonded with another person.. So i would say it could be many reasons and would sit down and have a talk with him about it. But then agin iv seen girls ack like that when they where cheating on there boyfriend.
2006-08-08 07:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. something is obviously going on to cause him to act like this. Maybe it is just the adjustment of having you live with him, but whatever it is you need to talk about it and very soon.
2006-08-08 07:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a comment about it and see if it draws ant remarks.
If nothing is said you have to come right out and ask what is going on.
The only time I don't want it is if we are fighting.
2006-08-08 07:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by what it do 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to him! Ask him whats going on? It could be he needs to adjust to the situation but not likely. When I first moved in with my bf we did it like crazy!
2006-08-08 08:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by chicamexicana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that's something to be worried about did he want to move in or did you pressure him into it. No time like right now to ask him are you upset about something or what ?
2006-08-08 07:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by classy chic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it depends on if he was just sleepy or if something more is going on with him. Talk to him and ask him what is going on. If you never ask you will make yourself scare, maybe for no reason.Talk to him
2006-08-08 08:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by Shannon M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to talk to him about. It has only been four days though thats not very long. He could just be tired.
2006-08-08 07:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by Satrfire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋