i dont know what to do?

Question

theres this guy and ive known him for like my whole life and my best friend was going to have sex with him but then he told her that he wanted to have a three way with me, her, and him and she told me and i didnt know what to say.

i like him alot! but i dont know about doing all that




what should i do??????? plz help

Answer 1

don't do three way. If he likes you then he will do it with just you.

Answer 2

Don't do it. It will change your friendship forever. Are you ready for that to happen? Besides, it won't make this guy like you any more than he already might. It will just change his opinion of you and your friend.
If you respect yourself, you will steer clear of that situation altogether.
A really good friend of mine came to me with that same exact thing. I didn't go through with it. I am glad I didn't. My friend did go through with it and the guy ended up telling everyone we knew and soon my friend was known as easy by guys and slutty by girls. I am still her friend. Would you want to walk around with that kind of popularity hanging over you or over your friend? Tell the guy to go live out his fantasy with a couple of hookers.
Honestly, his requesting something like that should tell you what kind of person he is. Don't do it.

Answer 3

i would say absolutely not!! Why waste your time on a man that is not even willing to be with you ALONE in the one of the most intimate moments of a relationship. Sounds to me like this guy is an absolute pig, and you may like him now, but as soon as he gets bored with what you are willing to do he will be GONE... who cares what everyone will say... be a stronger person than that... be your own person... stop caving ... stand up for yourself, and what you DESERVE!!

Answer 4

Girl.......DON'T!!!

I undestand you are really into the guy, but really, if he was really into you, do you think he would ask u to do this??? If a guy really likes you he should respect you..not make you degrate yourself like this. He is using whoever he can to have this 3some with..........don;t! You will only be hurting yourself and be disapointed in the end. Guys who ask of this from girls, should be alone for the rest of their lives.

sweety, if there was any respect invloved here, he would have NEVER asked of this from you....true?

Good luck and be strong. You don;t deserve to be treated like a whore.....u should feel offended....i know i would be

Bye

Answer 5

Go for it I bet it would be fun. That is if you are comfortable with the friend and the guy. This guy is shooting for the stars though. I would shag the friend first then see if you wanted in too.

Answer 6

Say it like it is. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with. Say no, explain to him how you feel, that you like him but you don't want that. Whatever you do, don't back down.

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K, I just found another question of yours that says you're 13. Don't have sex with him alone, nevermind with her as well. You shouldn't even consider that question at your age. Just say no.

Answer 7

You need to find a new man. Life is to short

Answer 8

you shouldn't do something that you don't want 2 do if it's going 2 make you feel that way beside that guy is maybe no good anyways

Answer 9

I agree If you are not comfortable with it then do NOT do it but if you get talked into it then use a condom AND birth control. although condoms do not always work at least you can try not to get a sexually transmitted disease

Answer 10

you know i have been there and i went ahead and did it and now we are not as close anymore, we are different with one another. so don't do it unless you want to put your friendship on the line. if he likes you then he will be with you not the both of you.