I guess I like girls more than guys. Beautiful girls always attract my attention! I am fine with the fact that I may be a lesbian. But I never tell any girls my feelings on them. Since most people are straight, I don't know what I to do except just looking at them. I know there must be some homo communities/bars. But I don't like the way to meet people. I want to have a girlfriend. But I don't know how. Must I make the first step in my life? It sounds quite hard to me. I am shy, hopeless and desperate. Unless someone has crush on me...not likely to happen. What other people need me for?
2006-08-08 07:21:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you find a girl that you like, go over and start a conversation with her. See where things go from there. The general opnion of many open-minded people is that most women are bi, so you may have better luck than you think. I'm a bit of a wallflower too. I just had to start forcing myself to get off my *** and make the first move.
2006-08-08 07:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by carora13 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-23 16:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be upfront with the girl you like. Come right out and tell her that you find her very attractive. You will know immediately if she likes you like that or not. There is also sites that you can get on that you can meet people who are interested in you.
Good luck!!
2006-08-08 08:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest u to be brave & just confess...
since u r fine with da fact dat u may be a les
but make sure u really like/love dat girl, not just the fact that u want a girlfriend
2006-08-08 07:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow hon.
Be super easy on yourself and VERY forgiving of mistakes.
I cannot guide you in this but to tell you that you need to keep happiness as your goal and forgiveness as your means.
Good luck and every happiness to you and the lady you wind up with.
2006-08-08 07:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell them then they might tell you that they are too then you can live hapily ever after and adopt a few kids and whatever.
2006-08-08 07:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by Topher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and ask God to take that from you.
2006-08-08 07:27:02 · answer #7 · answered by altotazz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋