I moved out to be closer to my boyfriend 5 years ago. 4 years ago he asked me to marry him. For two years everytime I asked when he told me next spring or next fall. I have an 8 yr old daughter. Last year he told me he had planned to take me to vegas but decided that my daughter would be upset that she was not involved so decided against it. This year I told him I needed a date and he told me not to give him ultamatums. That if I did I could go back home. I feel so bad not only for myself but also for my daughter who now also has lost intreast in the concept of us getting married and is now cutting him out of her life (always wanting to spend time with just me). She is even told me that she doesn't even want us to get married. I am 36 and he is 45. I am begingin to give up on life in general and I am begining to say hurtful things to him secretly hoping that he will confess his undying love for me. 6 mo ago I gave him back the ring & wouldn't wear it unless there was a plan.
2006-08-08 07:14:48 · 10 answers · asked by carriesredhorse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should let him go. It sounds like he is just using you and hurting your daughter in the process. You can't find someone who is devoted to you if you keep hanging out with this looser. He is just leading you on with a carrot at the end of a stick. He is using one of the oldest tricks in the book. He doesn't want to marry you, but he doesn't want to tell you to go, so instead he treats you like crap in the hopes that you will give up on him so he doesn't have to be the bad guy. He knows he can't give you what you want, but he's too much of a coward to tell you that.
2006-08-08 07:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sara B 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
If it were me, I would move out. It's been FOUR YEARS, and he gets testy when you ask to set a date? My take on it is that he has no intention of marrying you. Why he asked, I have no idea. Start getting on with your life, stop waiting for him. You have wasted enough time. If there is any hope at all, you will find out when you start making plans to separate yourself from him. Do not threaten, just DO.
2006-08-08 07:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your own stupid fault-you are living with him-what do you expect? You cut him off-completely. Be nice, but no lovin. Give him a date. Tell that is the day you will marry or the day you will leave. Be prepared to leave.
2006-08-08 07:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move back home. If he comes for you and your daughter then that is great.
2006-08-08 07:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by little fairy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your child is the product of this relationship - stick with it
If not, bail out now - don't waste any more time
2006-08-08 07:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by roadrunner426440 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can u be so patient.u cofront him about the marraige once and for all and ake a decision.if he is not intrested thn move on wth ur life.
2006-08-08 07:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure. visit a Sub Registrar's workplace with each and all of the correct records. MARRIAGE certificates & technique one million. what's Marriage Registration certificates? Marriage Registration certificates is issued to the two Husband and spouse whose marriage has already been solemnised. The Registration is finished under Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 or under the particular Marriage Act, 1954. The Hindu Marriage Act is proper in cases the place the two husband and spouse are Hindus, Buddhists, Jains or Sikhs or the place they have converted into any of those religions. the place the two of the husband or spouse or the two are actually not Hindus, Buddhists, Jains or Sikhs the marriage is registered under the particular Marriage Act, 1954. 2. What records are required for Registration? application sort carried out IN ALL admire AND SIGNED by applying the two HUSBAND & spouse. data OF place of dwelling - (VOTER I-CARD/RATION CARD/AADHAAR CARD). AFFIDAVIT IN PRESCRIBED format FROM HUSBAND & spouse mutually SIGNED. DATE OF start PROOFS OF the two events (10th class certificates, DATE OF start certificates). 2 PASSPORT length (2B length) pictures OF HUSBAND AND spouse AND ONE photograph OF MARRIAGE. MARRIAGE INVITATION CARD IF available. IF MARRIAGE substitute into SOLEMNIZED IN a non secular place, A certificates FROM THE PRIEST is needed WHO SOLEMNIZED the marriage. you are able to attitude the O/o the Sub-Registrar (who's additionally a marriage Officer) of your area or you additionally can attitude the in contact O/o the Deputy Commissioner for the time of 10:00 AM & one million:00 PM on any working day. you additionally can observe on line. considerable : All records must be attested by applying Gazetted Officer. what's the reaction time? Marriage Registration certificates is issued interior 7 days. what's application fee for Registration ? Rs. one hundred/- is charged as application fee for Registration and Rs. one hundred fifty/- is charged for Solemnization. unique reproduction of divorce decree/order in case of a divorcee and death certificates of bigger half in case of widow/widower. In case between the events belong to different than Hindu, Buddhist, Jain and Sikh religions, a conversion certificates from the priest who solemnized the marriage (in case of Hindu Marriage Act). In case applicant is a distant places nationwide, a NO Objection certificates in unique from the in contact intense fee to be submitted alongside with the appliance sort. One witness of Gazetted Officer (Gazetted Officer could carry good Seal and workplace id Card).
2016-11-04 03:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by filonuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows you're bluffing. Game over, move to another table.
2006-08-08 07:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to move on !!
2006-08-08 07:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by Big R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KICK HIM TO THE CURB
2006-08-08 07:17:41 · answer #10 · answered by changeling 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋