You need to move out and decide what to do about your marriage. You can't focus on that if you have a boyfriend. Your relationship with your now ex-boyfriend will have to a coworker-to-coworker relationship nothing more. (Change jobs if you can.)
You and your husband need very much to see a marriage/relationship counselor and put the marriage on a sound footing before you make any babies. The children will have to live with your choices.
2006-08-08 07:18:56
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answered by Otis F 7
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So you're moving back In with your husband? Good!, It's going to take time though, don't think it's going to be perfect or that it's going to feel comfortable when you come back, it's just going to take some time and alot of fighting to win eachother's hearts back, but when you do it's going to feel like a new relationship. As for the job, you can't afford to quit, so maybe you can try and deal with just working and not talking to the guy, and maybe in the meantime be looking for another job. In time things work out and everyone has things in their marriage they have to overcome and obstilces they have to face... That's Life. Find Your Happiness!!! :-)
2006-08-08 07:27:25
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answered by noahshottie0205 1
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Yes he wants babies now so he will have a life long hold on you when he messes up. As far as quiting your job, it would be better to find another position that's not directly in your b/f reach. Depending on what the separation was about, you may need to go to counseling while you are staying in separate places to work on the marriage, just in case things don't go the way you think they will. Wish you luck.
2006-08-08 07:22:17
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answered by msthinkpositive 5
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how can you even think of getting back to your husband?trust me hes never gonna change in fact it'll gate worse cos now hes gonna leave with with babies in hand,initially u had just Ur self to look after and this time it'll be your baby too!!
people never change,take me on this!!you are really confused,he has done this couple of times before and will do it again!!
2006-08-08 07:19:12
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answered by country_girl 5
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No babies...please!
Perhaps you could suggest an alternative lifestyle to both guys.
Three's company!
I know a guy who got his girlfriend to move in with him & wife. So far it seems to be working for all 3 of them.
Good luck.
2006-08-08 07:43:04
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answered by hellsbells 2
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please think long and hard before bringing babies in to something that is already not working. i hate it when people think thats the cure all for a screwed up relationship. all that does is add more stress and then you have a messed up kid from all the fighting and a divorce
2006-08-08 07:17:44
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answered by fawn 2
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I was going to say man you got over your hubby pretty quick. I dont know the details of what happened. but you need to get your priorites straight and it all comes downt tot what you want. Do you even know what you want.
2006-08-08 07:19:27
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answered by ? 5
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Good luck to you both.
2006-08-08 07:19:21
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answered by Anonymous
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