Read some tips on this site on how to break it off in a nice manner
2006-08-08 07:12:17
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answered by Anonymous
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I'll tell you what people told me.........there is no such thing as a good divorce. It is a very hard process to go through!!! To me, it sounds like your husband has already disconnected himself from the marriage, so he probably wouldn't put up a fight when you tell him you want a divorce anyways. Just don't waste any more of you time with this man. You have seen the proof for yourself, why continue on. Good luck. You need to keep yourself busy, so you won't think about it so much. Work out, get a job, (second job), talk to your friends a lot!!!!
2006-08-08 07:15:07
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answered by Littlemissy 4
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Have you already made up your mind not to try to save the marriage -- to go to couples' counseling or anything like that? Then I'm afraid there is no "magic" way to end the marriage. It's going to hurt. It's going to be awful. There's going to be tears, and fits of rage, and petty bickering over who gets what of the remnants of your life together. But the pain WILL pass. You'll make a new life for yourself, and be a better person for having suffered through all this $#!+; and maybe when you're ready, you'll find someone else and you'll have a better, stronger relationship. And maybe he'll find what he's looking for too, and you can be happy for him.
2006-08-08 07:18:33
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answered by Anonymous
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The best way to do this is to see an attorney, get your facts together and then divorce him. Don't let him know what your are doing until its over. make sure you have some evidence in case you have to go before a judge. Divorce him and never look back. Once its over-let it stay over-don't open it back up again. You don't have to be mean, just don't give him any room to mess this up for you. You can be happy again, but never with him.
2006-08-08 07:18:45
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answered by Anonymous
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i dont know how u married
i mean if family was invloved
i will suggest u have a talk with him and let him know u dont want
to sit on his happiness cus he is sitting or urs
he shd give u a divorce so u dont have to deal with his cheating
if he does not listen get an attorney and have a talk with them and they will serve him with the divorce papers
usaully the cheaters are the angry ones but just take it easy
and all the best
2006-08-08 07:19:33
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answered by maku d 3
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Pack your bags and leave, consult a lawyer on how to not get ripped off in what's going to happen next - but irregardless, you need to move on. And why would you want to end this on a good note, if you dont even want to be his friend anymore, just lay it on as thick as you can.
2006-08-08 07:16:15
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answered by redneckgirl 4
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well,i guess you know what to do?
and why do you want to be i9n his good books after what you went thru with him?he's been cheating you and lying to you,he is the one to break your trust and trust is the base of every relationship,just go ahead now and tell him all that you feel about him and don't go by his promises of not being with that woman any longer and stuff cos trust me he will never change,if you will forgive him once he'll expect that always and you'll be just wasting your life over someone who is not worth...
and its better to be straight about what you want?don't try to complicated things by trying some different way of conveying your feelings to him,just tell him straight and get him out of your life!!
2006-08-08 07:16:10
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answered by country_girl 5
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If it were me, I would tell him i want a divorce and if he wants to fight it then I wold tell about the affair...This can be resolved without becoming enemies..You need to sit down with him and work it through
2006-08-08 07:21:09
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answered by Mrs. M 5
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just leave why does it have to be nice
2006-08-08 07:13:38
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answered by buzy_bee_21 4
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you dont you just do it and go
2006-08-08 07:15:35
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answered by crazy 4 somethin' real 3
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