2006-08-08 07:04:43 · 32 answers · asked by Crystal Elisabeth 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Wow, you really need to get a life
2006-08-08 07:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak from experience but most of my Gay friends insist that no-one "turns" gay, they are or aren't. The only decision is whether or not to act on their desires. If you are truly attracted to women, and not just running away from men, not to mention being over 18, there are many venues to which you can turn for advice. Just remember not to make any snap decisions, this will affect not just you but everyone close to you. Think about how you're family will respond, your friends in general, your Church, and ask yourself if what you gain is worth what you might lose. Whatever you decide, the Goddess be with you, and good luck!
2006-08-08 07:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by rich k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, what an ignorant foolish child you seem to be. Are you just another homophobe being a smart aleck or just need a good spanking from your parents? Honestly... Concentrate on something you CAN turn into - like educated for instance.
2006-08-08 08:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real! You don't just wake up one morning and think, "Gee, I believe I'll become gay today"! You don't learn to be gay! Being gay isn't a phase you just enter! It's a lifestyle. And I'll tell you, at times it's pretty tough!
2006-08-08 08:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to start from the premise that you're honestly asking a serious question here...
You don't "turn" gay. You are or you aren't. Then it's just a matter of admitting it (first to yourself), and then choosing to come out of the closet if you want to go public with it.
2006-08-08 07:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by locolady98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend was gay all along, sweetie. You cannot "turn gay". You can deny it, but that's what some folks do. If you are strictly attracted to men, then you're straight. If you're attracted to both men and women(like yours truly!), then you're bisexual. If you are attracted to women only, then you're a lesbian. If you're her best friend, be there for her. Don't let her sexuality define your friendship. Be her friend anyway!
2006-08-08 07:10:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am unsurprised, I've had several friends over the years that wanted to be gay.
But I'm afraid, you really can't be.
You are stuck the way you were born.
Gay, straight or bi.
I'm really, truly sorry. But its the way you are.
Embrace who and what you are. You are good and wonderful just as you are, and be happy.
Be in love,
Reyn
2006-08-08 07:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't TURN gay. A gay can not TURN straight. You are born that way or you are not. Either you are attracted to the same sex or you are not.
2006-08-08 07:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU really need to get new friends. Why would you want to be gay? It is not a happy or healthy lifestyle!@
2006-08-08 07:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by nswblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then just be gay. Maybe if you had sex with your newly gay friend you would come to enjoy it, if you really want to be gay.
2006-08-08 07:09:39 · answer #10 · answered by Icy U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to be a gay?? Seriousely you are kiddin` . you can`t turn int`o a gay you must be somekind of a paranoic .
2006-08-08 07:07:29 · answer #11 · answered by Me .... Nandi :D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋