what should i do i love him and i want him to be there for me its our first baby i dont want to go truw my pregnancy by my self im scared what should i do ? i been going to E.R by my self and it sucks
2006-08-08 06:59:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Sometimes things does not go the way you want them to therefor you need to be strong you love him that's great but if he truw you out that means that you need to move on without him you need to just be strong :)
2006-08-08 07:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him in the past. If a man kicks out his pregnant girlfriend, then there is seriously something wrong with him. I don't care how much you love him he won't change. All women make the mistake of thinking they can change their man when they can't. I suggest leaning on family or friends and keep him away from you.
Don't make the mistake of going back. I can't stress this enough, you have to see that relationship as completely over. If finance is a problem I'm sure the government can help you through these rocky times. Even try a support group or a women's shelter.
2006-08-08 07:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he is a real nice guy. Gets you knocked up and then throws you out and on top of that you r having a high risk pregnancy problem. Honey go home to mom and dad (if you can)and lean on them for a little help if you can. Moms almost never can stay mad at their kids forever especially since you r pregnant. My nineteen year old daughter has just moved home with me and she is also in a high risk pregnancy. We argue alot but i do support her ideas and listen to her when she has something to say. Try it. I certainly can hurt anymore at this point.
2006-08-08 07:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT STICK WITH A JERK WHO KICKS YOU OUT IN YOUR TIME OF NEED JUST FOR THE SAKE OF THE BABY!!! There are other people you can turn to- your family, your girlfriends, your church. Join a local mothers organization (MOMS Club and Mothers & More are two I know of). Join Babycenter.com message boards. Talk to your OB for more resources. Pregnancy can be a joyous and exciting time, and just wait 'til you see the miracle that happens in the delivery room. You will find strength in yourself that you never knew you had. You can, and you WILL do it!! Best of luck.
2006-08-08 07:08:44 · answer #4 · answered by l8ybugn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry you are going through this. If he is not ready to be a father there is not a whole lot you can do, other than take him to court and have his wages garnished for child support after the baby is born. Just because you are not married to him or he claims to not want to have anything to do with the baby does not mean that he is off the hook. Nail him!
2006-08-08 07:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to be like your boyfriend is not someone that would be a very good father, if hes kicking you out when you are pregnant. Now that you are going to be a mother, you need to start learning how to live by yourself and be successful so that your child will have a good role model to grow up with and learn behavior from.
2006-08-08 07:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you love someone who doesn't love you. It's all about your baby now, you cant rely on that guy to be there for you. You got to be strong and get your head together to be strong for 2 now. It's going to be alright, trust me, it's just a hard struggle right now and I know your hurting from what he did. But as each day that passes by, it will get better and you will realize that you don't need him.
2006-08-08 07:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_truth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to go and talk to ur boyfriend and tell him how u feel and if he doesn't wanna listen get rid of him because he's obviously not a nice guy to that 2 a pregnant woman good luck and hope everything works out for u
2006-08-08 07:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by juicylucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I dont know how old you are. But if you are over 18, you need to be a strong woman and strive for yourself and you unborn child. If he shows he doesn't want to be involve than screw his as$-you dont need him. Show him you can do it without his butt. You will not regret it. Good luck
2006-08-08 07:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by Sugars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** em! If he did that he is not worth it. Show him that you can do it without him and that you don't need him. Be independent you can do it on your own. You are not alone there are a lot of single mothers out there. Hope everything turns out alright for you.
2006-08-08 07:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋