How do you get a guy to fall in love with you?
You love him very much and thought he did too.
2006-08-08 06:58:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
you cant make someone love you...if u love them but they dont love you back... stop wasting your time.. and start devoting your time to someone who will like you.. for who you are.!!
2006-08-08 07:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by abigail 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
1. Be willing to be friends--being a good friend often counts the most to a guy.
2. Wait on the gooey stuff. Young men can easily feel crowded by demands for romance and intimacy.
3. Pursue your own dreams. Everyone respects a person who is committed to herself.
4. If you love him, be supportive and tolerant of him, and be kind to him. But never, ever violate your own standards to be with him. Don't expect that your goodness to him should be repaid by his becoming your boyfriend. Give freely of your compassion and love to everyone as long as doing so does not harm you.
5. Stop focusing so much on getting him to fall in love with you.
Keep up wih your other male friends. A guy has radar for gals who are out to "get" him. Noone wants to be used in someonelse's romantic- need scenario.
Then if he does "fall in love" with you, it will be based on the solid rock of friendship. If he doesn't "fall," he might become a great friend, even a shoulder to cry on when you have heartache over a new love interest. In the meantime, you will have more time to know what kind of a person he really is, outside of your romantic fantasies, get some practice at connecting on a real level with a guy, gain knowledge about guys in general, and develop yourself beyond the dating game--all of which, as an added perk, will make you more interesting to guys in general and of more value to yourself than waiting for one paricular guy to tell you you are worthwhile. You go girl!
2006-08-08 14:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Emmavoberry 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You can not make someone fall in love with you if they do not want to. You can only be yourself and hope that someday that one guy who you have been dreaming of will be there when you're both ready for it. Good luck.. don't rush life.. it goes by quick enough as it is.
2006-08-09 00:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by angela_hauff 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying that "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach." It is sooo true. One of the man things a guy needs from a female is to be fed. When a man is hungry, he can't even think straight. So, have this guy over for dinner and cook for him. Find out his favorite dessert. Bring him chocolate chip cookies.
Just being caring in general helps. If he has a problem listen. Do things for him. Another thing women do for men is find lost things. We noticed when things are out of place so when he can't find his keys or some important papers, we usually know where they are.
2006-08-08 17:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by runningviolin 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Love comes naturally, not forced. He's either attracted to you or he's not. If he is, then the best love "true love" begins with friendship, then if love is meant to be it will blossom. If he's not.... it would be wiser to move on. If you try to force your attentions on to some one that shows no interest, you will only accomplish to push them further away.
2006-08-08 14:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by Vida 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself! If he dosen't fall in love with you...he is gonna fall in love with who you pretend to be. You will pretend all the time and when you are being your self he won't love you...
2006-08-08 16:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by Trailblaza 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't love no one who dosen't love back, it just hurt too much
2006-08-08 15:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by Papa Cheeto 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, it usually happens naturally. You can't make anybody do anything.
2006-08-08 15:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what for?... dunno but not exactly dancing
makin someone to fall in love may take u only a couple of pool games, thats what took me
this is another stupid answer by:
Saint jimmy
P.S:bush is a terrorist
2006-08-08 14:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop asking stupid questions.........love is not a forced one ...it comes naturally.......you are not making someone to love you.......if it's so then it is not a true one............u got it?
2006-08-08 14:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋