I latley have found an attraction for my fiance's best friend.... i have been with my fiance for 12 years though .. his best friend and talked about it but are to scared of the outcome... he doesnt want to bc they are like brothers.
2006-08-08 06:35:57 · 8 answers · asked by angelbearsx5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Engaged for 12 years and your not married yet? Go for the best friend.
2006-08-08 06:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by dd 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋
You really need to evaluate your relationship with your fiance. Are you truly still in love with him?
I think fantasizing during sex is perfectly normal and fine, but from what you have said, you and his best friend have discussed being intimate with each other. Not a very good situation. All I can tell you is that temptation is always going to be out there, and if you are truly, truly in love with your fiance you will fight the temptation. These milestones will only make your relationship stronger in the end.
Good luck to you, and I hope you make the best decision for you!
2006-08-08 13:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by browneyes45506 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a phase. You have been with the same man for 12 years...and that is a long time..your mind starts to wander and create fantasies...They will pass.. What ever you do, don't act on these fantasies..because it will only break up 3 different relationships..
You and your Fiance
Your Fiance and his BEST friend
And You and the Best friend.
Just let your mind wander, there is nothing wrong with that. Thoughts are thoughts...actions are actions...just let your mind do the wandering and your body stay with your man.
2006-08-08 13:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by Bevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say u try to go with the fiance because thats 12 long years but be honest and truthful because a relationship needs that but try to hurt his feelings even though he is a man u should be sensitive confront and comfort.
2006-08-08 13:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by K.L.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If keeping it to yourself isn't an option, and you feel like you're likely to act on this fantasy ( as the tone of your question suggests you might) consider ending your engagement before you wreck this man's life. Cheating is a crappy thing to do to someone, and to even have that conversation with his so-called friend is tacky of both of you. Breaking your engagement will hurt him tremendously ( unless he saw this coming) but you'll be doing him a big favor in the long run by saving him the expense of divorcing you. Bye.
2006-08-08 13:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being mentally unfaithful to ur fiance. May be u are infatuated with ur fiances friend. make up ur mind before its too late so that u dont spoil 3 lives.
2006-08-08 13:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love your fiance be honest with him.
2006-08-08 13:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by warrior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with a threesome
2006-08-08 13:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by firefightingexpert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋