PLease lets me know what difficulties you had to endure at some point and how did you overcome them?
2006-08-08 06:33:05 · 7 answers · asked by sweetchic117 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-08-08 06:48:59 · update #1
Well my husband and I started dating when we both were 15. We married when we graduated H.S. at age 19. Our 10th wedding anniversary is October 25th. So I guess that means we are both 29. I would say that the hardest part is knowing what we really want in our lives. We really haven't had a chance to make choices on our own. It took us a really long time to grow up. I would say we have finally felt free to make our own decisions in the past year. We both had dreams of becoming something that now is way to late to become, but in spite of it we are happy. We are closer, and more in tune with each other than most couples we know. Hey, we grew up together, we're best friends. We trust each other, know each others strengths and weaknesses. Help each other through all the hard times. We depend on each other. Maybe we wonder what life could of been like without each other, but in the end we can't live with out each other. Maybe this helps. Oh, by the way, I was his first and he was my first. Proving that yes, you can live with having sex with only one partner.
2006-08-08 06:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest problem we faced was her not being able to live a single life. Go out with her friends without having to check in. Going to clubs and partying. I was a little older so i got that crap out of my system. So while we were married she took a "vacation" from the relationship to find out who she is as a person. Needless to say it drove a big wedge in between me and her that still exists today. She still wants me to stick around while she goes through this. She is still on "vacation".
2006-08-08 06:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by Esoteric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was actually 20 when I got together with my g/f, but I can tell you the most common problem.
Insecurity of experience. A lot of couples who have been together since a young age have the issue of "I'm not experienced enough" in a few years you may feel like you love this person, but wish you had "kissed a few frogs" before finding him. You may feel like you missed out on single life in your prime dating years.
2006-08-08 06:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was 20 when i met my wife she a senior in high school, that was back in 91. we now have to beautiful kids. but like every relationship there's ups and downs, but what im learning from is that it takes work from both partners. so stay committed and true and love will guide u the rest of the way.
oh yeah im also learning to keep romance alive and kickin too!!
2006-08-08 06:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will be times when she wants to do something with her friends instead of you, and your feels get hurt. Or you see her talking to someone that might make you feel inferior. It's all part of growing up and trusting someone. Love is difficult when you're young because of you lack of experience. Keep trying and be true to yourself.
2006-08-08 06:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by Michael S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my high school sweetheart. We have had no difficulties because we love each other very much and are very committed to one another.
2006-08-08 06:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by Kristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are ups and down in every relationship talk and work them out, its not different if you meet in high school or last month !!
2006-08-08 06:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by Big R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋