I am married and have a small child. I often day dream about something happening to my child or me(car wreck, murder, kidnapping, etc.). Sometimes it happens at night, but mostly during the day. I know it's my fear of losing my child or not seeing my child grow up. How can I get past it? I think about it alot.
2006-08-08 06:32:03 · 11 answers · asked by serin7300 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this is so common, I assume this is your first child... You have these fears becuase this is new, you know that your child is your life now, and that this life is depending on you. Its a scary thing. but you will soon find your comfurtable zone and settle into it. dont worry i know things can happen, but dont waste your time thinking about something that hasnt happen and mostly like wont. concentrate on your child and marrage. If you feel secure about your situation you should feel alittle better. Good luck, you will be fine.
2006-08-08 06:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by JOJO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a hobby or something to keep your mind occupied. While day dreaming about it is harmless, you don't want to subconsciously cause harm. Fear of losing your child is irrational if you are taking good care and not leaving the child in a situation where he/she could be kidnapped.
Hope you get over this soon!
2006-08-08 06:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by Coo coo achoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times dreams give us messages, But actually dreams don't have any power to forecast future. But dreams are the output of things in our mind. So these forecasts are not actually the things going to happen , but things we desperately want to see. But most of the times system goes crazy and weird dreams come into party. I have seen me dying many times, but still I am pretty good. A dream would never predict things like what u have mentioned. Nothing to worry, Get back to life. By the way, with this answer I'll cross 1000 marks in YA!!!
2016-03-27 03:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My kidnapping daydreams are about me, not others, just because I'm so bored sometimes that even being bound and gagged in a closet somewhere would be better than here.
Hmmm....how do you get past it? Well, just say to yourself, who is the boss here- me or my fear? Either be strong or be a puss. And if you decide "I'm going to be a puss and give in to my fear" then ask yourself- what kind of example am i setting for my kid?
2006-08-09 10:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not day dreamed it but i have dreamed it during the night.
2006-08-08 06:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i alway think about that i have two children off my own dont think about it enjoy with your child take to the park or go to your friend enjoy people company
2006-08-08 06:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a psychiatrist,he or she can give you a professional advice or take your chances here.
2006-08-08 06:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your a bit to stressed about it.. try to keep yourself busy..... the only reason why you think about it is cuz you want to.... and u keep reminding yourself about it... stop being negative... you might want to get some help...try talking to someone about it... if you let them know wat your feeling.. you might find some comfort and peace of mind
2006-08-08 06:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by abigail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some help
2006-08-08 06:36:39 · answer #9 · answered by firefightingexpert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think positive and these events will not occur
2006-08-08 06:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by Icera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋