Every time I meet a girl and get interested in them they say your to nice for me yet most of the women on here seem to slag off men.
2006-08-08 06:18:26 · 28 answers · asked by simon n 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I believe in treating women like they should be treated I pay for them where were out but i get told thats creepy
2006-08-08 06:30:25 · update #1
Ok then so no on i will be nasty to women and smack them. If thats what all women expect from men then thats what there gonna get from now on.
2006-08-08 06:37:29 · update #2
The guys on here are right. Most women don't have a clue what we want. We get frustrated because guys can be so... well male! So we say we want a nice guy, yet when he comes along, many times we view him as weak and as a good "friend". Sorry... eventually you're going to run into a girl who you will be the exact mixture between "normal guy" and "nice guy" and you'll make each other happy. Until then, on behalf on many of the girls like that, i apologize!
2006-08-08 06:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by october_137 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sad but true.
I think some women feel they do not deserve a nice guy. Same goes for men too.
Women are held back and when they say women want bad guys, I think it's because they've been held back. Usually doesn't last very long though.
Everyone learns from experience - dumpers & dumpees.
Enjoy the variety, learn to have fun without getting attached and take off your "this is the one" blinders.
You don't want them anyway. If they're like this dating, they'll be worse really attached to them.
What you're looking for will be worth the wait! Hang in there.
2006-08-08 13:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the definition of nice really. Women are generally looking for the man who will sweep them off their feet, the Knight in shining armour. Some women see this type of man as being a ´bad guy´.
In reality, once the Knight has swept you off your feet, all you are left with is a suit of armour and a horse.
Keep being a nice guy, there are a lot of nice women out there who, one day, will love you and want you for who you are.
Good luck with your search, I hope Miss nice gal comes along one day.
2006-08-08 13:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by lady_in_blue_109 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women.....they all say they want a nice guy then run off with ar*sho*les. They dont know themselfs. Dont try and work it out, I have there is no logic or reason to woman.....Just be yourself if they dont like it have a wa*k.
a Joan Rivers Quote ( I think ) Women fall in love with mens faults, then try the rest of there lives to change them....
Good luck
2006-08-08 13:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by Brittop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe coz women have ideals too. For some women, their idea of the "whole package" may not be the same as that of other women. Its as simple as that. Well if you spend another 12 mths looking and u're still being rejected, just come to me k. I'll treat you right.
2006-08-08 13:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by Stranger In Paradise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So find one that does want a nice guy. Why would you want to be with one who didn't anyway? There are plenty of women who want nice mature men. You need to change where you are meeting women if your only meeting ones like that.
2006-08-08 13:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by ~Gate~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arrrrrrrrrrrrhhhhhhhh bless what aquestion well i like nice men my bf is lovey not all women are weirdos who like to be knocked about and treated like a piece of dirt take advice from a nice girl there is some one out there 4 every1 just keep looking that nice girl is around that corner 4 u.
2006-08-13 14:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by rebecca g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesterday I was watching this guy, Kenny. A big lug of a guy. someone whom I would not have considered dating.
Yet, as a grown woman, I look at him and think how lucky his wife is. He is so very nice.
Somehow, when we women are young, we just don't see possibilities, This is a reality that hurts us women, too.
2006-08-08 13:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good men and women are in perpetual doom when it comes to relationship cause they unfortunately always seem to find the worse or even the good who turn out to be bad from the opposite sex.
2006-08-08 13:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's rubbish, you're just going for the wrong kind of girl. All my former boyfriends (and my current) have been nice guys - I don't go out with b*stards, I can smell them a mile off (or if I do, I always know exactly why I'm going out with them and I'm seldom wrong).
In that case, why do all blokes go out with petite blonde muppets with breast implants who haven't got a thought going on in their head??!!
2006-08-08 13:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by StoryGirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋