my cousin and i are friends and so are our husbands. Should i tell my cousin n my husband that my cousin's

Question

husband wants to have sex with me? I was really disappointed.

Answer 1

Just tell him you don't return the interest and you are disappointed that he has such little consideration and respect for the feelings of his wife, your husband that is his "friend", or you. His sexual gratification could destroy three others lives.

He is not your or your husband's friend and this relationship should be cooled.

Answer 2

it depends on how much you want to stay in your cousins life.
no woman feels totally comfortable around someone whom they know their man has made a pass out.

if you tell her, when she confronts him, he is going to lie his way out of it and then take you off the list of friends because you are considered as a troublemaker.

if you value your friendship with your cousin keep your mouth shut. if you open your mouth, you will not only destroy your relationship with them, but your husbands as well.

as long as you didnt take him up on the offer, act like you didnt hear the dog and ignore it.

eventually your cousin is going to catch on to what he is doing and she is going to need all the friends that she can have. try to be one of those that she really can depend on.

if you did take him up on the offer and you were disappointed, who's fault is that? disappointed about what? if you did you should be disappointed in yourself.

Answer 3

I think that you should talk to him and tell him how you feel that u dont like that and to never do it again and if he does that is when you tell your husband and cousin.

Answer 4

I think you should have sex with him. 34 out of 37 women have sex with their cousin's husband. Those are the facts. Facts don't lie.

Answer 5

first you tell the cousin's husband NO! you let him know if he pursues this in any fashion, you will tell your husband. Then let your husband beat him up anyway.

Answer 6

of course you should tell your cousin, and if she does not believe you then that's on her. and most of all you must tell your husband so that he can put and end to the nonsense.

Answer 7

Of course you should tell! Aside from other moral reasons, if you don't tell and it comes up later, you are the one in question for not coming out with it sooner, even though (I am hoping) you turned him down.

Answer 8

JUST MAKE IT CLEAR TO HIM THAT YOU ARE IN NO WAY INTERESTED IN DOING ANYTHING WITH HIM. IF YOU THINK IT IS SERIOUS THING THEN YOU SHOULD TELL YOUR HUSBAND.

Answer 9

You should definitely tell them about that dog! His wife should know the kind of jerk she's dealing with. good luck!

Answer 10

yes you schould i mean that your freakin blood. Blood is thicker than water. you know it might hurt her but at least she wil know. Also be there for her when u tell her two