My best friend is friends with my 2 enimies and she hangs with them and I ask her why she hangs with my enimies and she say I just want to see what they have to say, but I dont beleive her, what do I do?
2006-08-08 06:12:04 · 20 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know you feel she owes you a certain amount of loyalty being your best friend and all, and she does to a certain extent, but she still has to be able to think for herself. You two can't share all the same likes and dislikes. I understand you don't like these two people. Maybe she does though. Just try not to make too big of a deal about it.
2006-08-08 06:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have enemies doesn't mean that all your friends have to have the same ones as well. Each person has the right to like who they want to. If you and these others don't get along doesn't mean that all your friends have to hate them as well. They can like you just as much if not more. You shouldn't look at it as she is betraying you. She might be afraid to tell you she likes them, ease up. Or it can be true that she is trying to see what they are saying about you. Why should you care what other people think about you though? All that should matter is you.
2006-08-08 06:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep those enemies close, girl. Your friend may soon be one.
You should be the bigger person and buddy up a little bit to the enemies that you have. First of all, this may help ease the situation between you and them. Secondly, this may help smoke out your "friend" and see what she's REALLY about.
You never know. I found one of my best friends IN an enemy. Talk about ironic.
2006-08-08 06:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer something. the guy wasn't interested in you. She did not stab you contained in the back because you stated your self that you've been no longer relationship the guy. if you're really close inclusive of your chum do not let a guy come between you. He heavily isn't round that lengthy believe me yet your friendship can very last a existence time if that's truthful. let it bypass. you're dealing with a jealous section more effective so than being harm. Be a chum and settle for his selection.
2016-11-23 16:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably helping or back stabbing u...
U ask her to look at u in the eye and say the truth...
Or ask her to swear...
Or find someone that u can really trust to find out the truth...
Or...Find a replacement...It's not worth it to have a back stabber fiend...
Trust me...U really don't wanna a back stabber best friend...U won't like it...
-KarinQ-
2006-08-08 06:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Kaihoshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask yourself why those 2 girls are your enemies. Does your best friend talk about a lot of people? If she does... then she probably talks about you. Your best friend is entitled to hanging out with whoever she wants, but if she is really hanging out with them to hear what they say about you, then maybe you should watch what you say. She probably tells them that she hangs out with you to find out what you have to say about them!
2006-08-08 06:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by luckycharmed861010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont trust her you need to move on and find other friends the world does not have to revolve around her...she should repect the fact that you dont like those other girls or whatever and if she was a good enough friend then she would understand and hang out with you
2006-08-08 06:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing she's not telling you truth at all for all you everything that she could be telling you is a lie. It's like why would she even be friends wuth people that you don't even like. And what do i mean is that she not even a true friend b/c you can tell if person is lieing 2 u.
2006-08-08 08:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me someone is "2 faced"...even tho she might be your best friend...you need to watch your back. She could be setting you up for a fight or something. If she is telling you what they are saying i can promise you shes telling them what your saying....best friends wouldnt befriend there best friends enemies...so something is definitly up with that!
2006-08-08 06:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by Sugar_Plumzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do? You get yourself back to school and learn how to spell ENEMIES and BELIEVE and you learn how to form grammatically correct sentences.
Forget about friends and enemies and back stabbing. Concentrate on your education and you will be much farther ahead in life.
2006-08-08 06:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋