I have my bff that i had told everything to. Then at a sleepover party i had with her and one of her other friends. me and her friend got mad because all she was doing was talking to her boyfriend. Her friend sent a text from my phone to myy bffs almost bf and then lied and said i did it and my bff believed her. After a couple of weeks we made up and my mom drove us to the pool. Then out of nowhere one of her geto friends showed up and she just ditched me. I'm not sure if i wanna make up. I've tried to call her but everybodys call just goes straight to voicemail so i cant call her. My birthdays soon should i invite her to my party? All serious answers appreciated thanks.
2006-08-08 06:09:50 · 21 answers · asked by Hottie1023 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It doesn't sound like your BFF is a very good friend to you at all. A real friend would never ditch you for someone else if they've made plans with you already. Your BFF should be a loyal, trusting person who loves you for who you are. Hope this helps, and good luck looking for a new BFF, sweetie! ;)
2006-08-08 06:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of calling her, why not try writing her a REAL letter, not an email, and explain everything that happened and why you feel the way you do. Maybe, if she's any kind of a REAL BFF, she'll be the one who says "I'm sorry", I wouldn't waste time with someone who isn't willing to listen to the whole story.
2006-08-08 06:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by louisianaracegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she really is not a friend.Stick with the people that love you for you ! Real friends, don't dump their friends when something more fun comes along!Try to stay away from people that have a lot of drama in their lives,and get on with being the best you ,you can be!
2006-08-08 06:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by darlinda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! You shouldn't be her friendz , ok this is so like a movie called "odd Girl Out" they have been watching it..Ok well don't be her friend no more because you shouldn 't be friendz with her..No matter what she do..
Don't invite her either because she's been talking smack...
See i just don't tell the people i hang out i'm having a party because if i do they will treat me diff. only people i tell is the people i know that wo'nt change...But yeah i'm not inviting like 3/8
of my friendz b/c most of them are like b's!
So if you still have probs. IM me at diamond092093 or e-mail me at bubblegurl_93@yahoo.com
because this is a huge prob.
♥Amber
WHEN SHE APOLOGIZES ACCEPT IT JUST DON'T HANG WITH HER!!
2006-08-08 06:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a toughy, its good to forgive, but its also not good to let a friend walk all over you....Have a talk with her tell her how you feel and ask her what you need to ask her, communication solves all kinds of problems and heartache. Need to find out what she feels and thinks before you forget her, dont' want something like this to ruin a friendship.
2006-08-08 06:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by Freedom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah definitely the girl needs help ... you should be the better person and ask her what the problem seems tobe... apologize for anything that you think might of offended her .. if that doesnt work well then am sorry but just leave her alone .. good luck .....
2006-08-08 06:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by gabbz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would count my losses and walk away. She is saying pretty clearly that she wishes to move on to other friends. It is hard to let go but she does not seem like much of a friend to start with. A true friend could not treat you like that.
2006-08-08 06:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by Katt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is a true friend then she would call you if she is a bff then yes make up friends are important to have bacuz tell them every thing so try it good luck
2006-08-08 06:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need sometime away from her don't invite her but talk about it in front of her if it doesn't get better get some new friends
2006-08-08 06:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by K P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she ditches you for others let her makeup with you don't make up with her don't invite her to your party give her a taste of hurtfulness that she is giving you
2006-08-08 06:15:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋