why my husband dont let me to use his atm card eventhough i will just get a little money?

Question

he said that he dont trust me maybe i will spend much, i wont i just want to feel that he trust me and feel that i'm his wife before i dont have a work and i dont have my own cash if i want to play bingo and he's still at work and his atm card its in the house i still need to wait him rather than saying just take my atm and get some cash for your bingo but it never happen. pls help!

Answer 1

Hi,

Is it a possiblity for you to get your own job and therefore your own money?

Playing BINGO is not a very worthwhile way to pass the time - have you ever thought of volunteering at a hospital or drop in centre? Unless, do you win all the time when you play Bingo? Then borrow $$ from a friend and pay them back with your winnings. How much does it cost to play bingo - $5 or so? You could do that and still volunteer some of your time.

Would your husband give you some money for going back to school? Then furthering your education would seem to be a good choice to me.

I am sure your husband only wants the best for you.

Answer 2

Why is he at work and you are wanting to go out and play bingo? You're not exactly holding up your side of the bargain, are you? Either get a job or be a housewife - but don't expect money for gambling instead of doing something useful. People can also be very territorial about their cashcards - I trust my partner, but as a matter of principal neither I nor he would hand over ours to the other person for withdrawing money. It's just not done. Besides which, I don't think he should give you money for bingo unless you're also doing something useful with your life.

Answer 3

IF you have time to play bingo while he is at work, I suggest you get a job instead...even a part time job. I suspect your husband watches every penny that is spent, and for good reason..read the "credit" section here and see what real trouble is. You should be thankful that you have someone who is so responsible. Now, get off the couch, turn off Oprah, and get a job. Geeesssss..to have your problems!

Answer 4

A little money on gambling is ok. I play the lottery. I hate men that think they are the boss. I am a male. I would treat women with respect. I see nothing wrong with playing bingo.

Answer 5

hey!! here's a brainwave, get a job, then u wont have so much time to spend wasting ur money at bingo, and if u actually had to earn it u would appreciate how hard people work to make their hourly wage

Answer 6

Let me tell you something. The other day I filled my car with gas. Some man inside the store told me now I can go home and tell my husband how much of his money I spent. I told that man I don't have a hsband, that's why I have money! I spoke the truth.

Answer 7

He won't let you use it because he HAS A BRAIN. Be happy he gives you anything to play bingo at all. Wasting his money.

Answer 8

Well ill tell you what. It girls are never responsible with money that isn't their own! That's why we refuse joint checking accounts!
Because piss you all off once and boom we have no money left! Don't say girls do not do this because TWO of my friends g/fs have done this to them. I suggest you get off your lazy *** and get yourself a job or start giving him some more *** so he has a reason to give you some money!

Answer 9

get a job....

if nothing else, talk to your husband about starting your own bank account, and he could deposit however much he thinks you might need every week (or every payday)....sounds like he is the one that handles the finances, so he would be the one to make that decision....maybe he could put so much every week for you to spend however you choose....

Answer 10

That's not fair. Maybe you shouldn't clean the house until he is there because you don't trust him. If he can't trust youwith money what can he. money can be replaced other things can't.