We're talked about it before and even placed ads but didn't go thru with it. I still want to try but she's avoiding the subject. I think if she tried it she would get into it and like it. I've seen her oject before to something and then enjoy it. BTW it's a MFM 3some i'm talking about.
2006-08-08 06:01:07 · 12 answers · asked by dwnaz1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just tell her to try it and she could have everything done to her and she did not have to do anything. But make sure you find a couple who will be willing to go slow for the first time and not pressure her. Plus offer her drinks if she is willing. Make it a visit that they come over after you have started drinking. Let me know if your in the Dallas area we would like to try this too thistle4321@sbcglobal.net
2006-08-08 06:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by florie 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I think if you really loved and respected both yourself and your wife you wouldn't be asking this question.
Marriage is between two people and what you are asking for should have been engaged in before marriage.
Don't pressure your wife into something she is uncomfortable with, and just because she's objected to something and then tried it, doesn't mean she was really doing it for herself but just may have felt pressured by you!!
I think you need to become less selfish. And no, I'm not a prude. Just don't think your idea of marriage sounds very healthy.
2006-08-08 13:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I did not read any other posts, but are you freakin NUTS. you must be. BAD, VERY BAD IDEA. You are opening your wife up to other possibilities and other feelings that might arise out of sucha situation.. BAD, VERY BAD... I have friends that did this only FMF, and the husband left with the other female the one that was not his wife, and they are now married and well the rest is history, however they are happy. So if you want to ruin your marriage then go right ahead, that is between you and your wife. But look at all angles of it. Some folks can do it and be ok with it,. but if your wife is being reluctant it is probably for a good reason. LET IT GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-08 13:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by sweet 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless you are bi, you will not enjoy MFM, someone will always feel left out. But most importantly, marriage is not about seeking out others to make you happy. Enjoy each other!
2006-08-08 13:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to do is line up a good divorce lawyer because that is where the relationship will be heading if you pressure her into something she is not ready willing to do .
2006-08-08 13:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by ishootpix 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the first guy. find someone on your own and bring him around her. casually at first, kinda like a friend. then after a few meetings start getting her in the mood. if she drinks alcohol, it will speed up the process.
2006-08-08 13:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by tbonz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 males one female thats harsh... i rather have female femal male lol but hey just convince her it will be fun tell her yu found someone really hot make her get wet ...bring him over a few times then BAM! 3 in the bed..he he
hope you like that
2006-08-08 13:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by Sexy LoVe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't that make you feel like a pervert?
You are a pervert.
Get some psychological help before you kill your marriage.
2006-08-08 13:07:39 · answer #8 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
then you need to find a guy you can invite round to get her in the mood...
2006-08-08 13:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her what does she prefer, two man and her or two women and you? convince her more.
2006-08-08 13:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by lovelyshih 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋