is it not life miserable if there is no person to share our tears and joys?

Answer 1

Hi Evelyn

First of all let me tell you that you are mostly right in stating that
it is always better to have someone (or may be just a very few people) to share your talks with. However even if you do not have good friends whom you can trust and share some (not all) of your talks then don't worry.

Have patience and wait. Wait for the right person (or people) to come into your life who are trustworthy and worthy of sharing your talks with. It may take long for this to happen but I am sure it happens to everybody. Sooner or later good people come into everyone's life. That is the time to slowly capitalize on the opportunity and make good friendship. Meanwhile do your own search on topics like (not necessarily verbatim) : "How to keep good friends as good friends", "How to make new friends and cultivate friendship", "How frienship begins and How it matures" and the like. Internet and interesting books can be good resources to start your search on the subject. The books may not be very expensive ones. Many a times less expensive or bargain books are more useful than popular and expensive ones.

However while you are gaining knowlege on friends, friendship and making new friends do not get anxious or impatient.
Patience, Patience and you will succeed in this noble goal
(You may have many goals in the life and this one can be one of them). For friends especially new friends do not like over anxious people Or people who seem to follow them Or are privvy.

Don't worry, this is a good time to gain knowlege on the art of friendship. It will keep you occupied in your moments of solitude.
And above all remain happy. For be assured you will get good person (or people) with whom you can share some of your tears and joys. Wait patiently. Have patience above all and remain happy. Do not get disheartened or get negative thoughts. You are a precious human being. It's just happening that good friends are taking long to come to your life. May be the Supreme one has some puropse in your life for this.

Remain happy, behave rationally and while you wait patiently for good and trustworthy friends keep improving your knowlege on "Friends and Friendship" and "Talking to friends", "Talking to new friends" and "What to discuss with friends and what not and when".

All the best in your life Evelyn. Above all don't worry and remain happy.

Answer 2

hi,

life indeed would be miserable without friends, family & loved ones.

any material thing ( a ferrari, a yacht or even take a personal jet & own island ) can please ur senses only for a while if u dont have anybody beautiful to share them. whereas 2 good friends can have gr8 laughs evn at the dingiest place in the world without a worry in the world.

similarly if u dont have anybody to share ur sorrows, u'll get bogged down with their burden lonely..

joys multiply on sharing while sorrows get divided !!

keep a target to make the min of enemies, max no of frnds & see how exciting life gets.

so go ahead, break a leg

Answer 3

Sharing your tears and miseries only causes them to multiply. Life is only miserable if you choose to make it that way. You were born with everything you'll ever need to make your life whatever you want it to be, and you don't need anyone to share joys or tears with. It does make time easier to bear, for some, and it does have its benefits, but the lack of interpersonal relationships does not, in and of itself, create a miserable life.

Answer 4

there should be some person with whom we can share our joys and tears other wise we become neurotics.free association, the technique used by Freud allows the patients to express their feelings in words without any inhibition. it is called talking therapy, to some extent relieves people of their problems.as a punishment the criminals are separated from their fellow beings and kept in solitary confinement. if any person does not have any friend means there is some thing wrong with that person's mind. only extreme introverts and schizophrenics and yogis can live without the company of any person.

Answer 5

i wouldnt say depressing. joys are greater relaxing with human beings to share them with, and its much less complicated to get previous the tears with somebody than on my own. yet i've got been on my own, and that i wasn't depressing, according to se. i'm actual happier now, with somebody to share, so i know the form you experience. i trust you; tears and joys are greater helpful shared.

Answer 6

Yes

Answer 7

I'll keep it simple!! if you can't be alone and be happy! no matter how many peeps you got in your life your going to not be happy!
only you can make yourself happy!
other don't they are bonuses in life!
But is nice to share with others but it's not going to make me miserable! I'm happy with my self and due to that I'll always have someone to share it with!

Answer 8

well, actually no, I do enjoy my life with no partners. I find it refreshing not to have to worry about checking in with someone, or dating who i might want to date or doing what i feel like doing when i want to. I laugh loud and long and refuse to cry. I did enough of that after my wife betrayed me in the worst way imaginable.