Why do I always thrive to see my wife crave for sex?Can anyone help me?I want to see her have a proper orgasm.

Question

She seems to be interested but feels that it is something very bad to admit to enjoy sex.At times I feel it is me who should not be thinking in that way.What should I do?And that I want somebody to become freindly with her and motivate her to to feel free while having sex.I love my wife very much and so I dont want her to be deprived of this particular heavenly pleasure.Can anyone build up a freindship with her somehow,not letting her know about the fact of this mail and counsel her to be initiated towards a unhesitant *** which I think she desperately deserves?I am, I hope ,not a jerk.Am I?If at all I am talking sense do please help me.Her name is Daliya.Just what I want from her is a smile one fine morning that would mean to me,"Ya,today I am a complete woman and have realised what being a woman actually means to be and that today for the first time I feel myself to be complete!"Can really anybody make her ***?

Answer 1

It is good for you to want your wife to have orgasms and enjoy sex. Asking someone to intervene on your behalf is not the way to do it. The only person that can allow her to orgasm is herself. She won't achieve the sexual peak unless she is open to it and maybe not even unless she tries to do it. Hopefully with your help.

It seems she has a sexual issue that needs to be resolved. You may be best served if you were to get her to go to counseling with you and talk out the issue with a professional marriage or sexual counselor.

Remind her that you want her to experience sexual pleasure as part of your love for her. Strongly urge her to go to counseling with you.

Answer 2

Lots of women can't have satisfying sex for different reasons. Your wife need to see that sex between a husband and wife is a good thing.

Many good girls feel guilty for enjoying sex. It's a common problem.

But, with your patience help, she can come to understand that sex is a way to bond a man a woman together emotionally, physically, and spiritually.

There is no one judging her when she is giving herself to you as a wife should. Certainly not God. Tell her that she is a gift from God to you and that you are taking loving care of this precious gift by making her feel good. Caress her slowly. Take your time. Just hold her in your arms, naked together, without sex sometimes so she feels comfortable.

Tell her sex is natural.

I agree that you don't need someone else to talk to her unless it is a religious representative from your church. Talk to her without being pushy, angry, or desperate.

Here is a neat little book that really helped us. There is a small part in it that talks about sexual hang ups. She needs to see that lots of women feel the way she does, but they learn to overcome it.

She can, too. She deserves to feel the pleasure that a husband gives his wife when they love each other.

Oh, here is that link to the book. It's cheap and helpful.

http://www.ebookomatic.com/publish/authorinfo.asp?EbookId=1001

Good luck!