i jus got a cell phone and it is an alltel,my freind has a tracfone,and we went to summer school and she met this boy in the 9th grade she is in the 6th,so they started to go together and then she would use my phone to txt this other boy to get with her boyfreind my mama found these nasty txt and she got mad and i got in trouble my godmama said dont be her freind anymore and my mama said i should not let her take advantage of me anymore and u can still be her freind but dont do what ever she say this "freind" of mine has a body and matured like a 17 year old her so called boufreind is in the 9th grade,my cousins say that they were going to jump him and beat him up what should i do be her freind or not???
2006-08-08 05:43:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your mom is worried about you and that is nice. Think about kids with parents whom do not care. That is so sad.
I think you should stay friends with this girl. I also think that you two friends should talk the situation over. What really happened. What is it that your mom really is saying to you about being careful? - why does she react this way? - what do you think is her intention? Talk about it. I am sure it will be nice for both of you to think about how your relationship is working out. Teenagers can mature at different speed and have different needs. How is it with you and your friend?
Good luck and best wishes.
2006-08-09 01:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by IfYouSeeKay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still be her friend just don't let her text on your phone and if she gets mad at you you just say "You've been using my cell phone just for texting some dude and when my mom found it i got in big trouble, So what I'm trying to say is STOP USING MY CELL PHONE ON THE DUDE!!!" Wellz at least that is what i would do. I give you alot of Luck on this so ya Good Luck.
2006-08-16 10:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, you may not think so now but backing away from her is a good idea. i am 16 and i learned the hard way that sometimes its hard to be completely loyal. you need to think of yourself. you come first... i know it sounds harsh but it doesent sound like your friend has a good way of respecting herself. you have to remember that now these things seem important. your friends seem like your only ones you will ever have and sometimes pressure to be cool or do things may be too tempting but think... in 10 years is it gonna matter? you should focus on yourself, your family and yes friends but there is a time when you need to think to yourself...is it worth it, the trouble... next time your friend wants to use your cell just say no nicely and explain why and how you feel. if she doesent accept it give up on her for good. shes no real friend if she doesent understand that.
2006-08-16 11:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Courtney,
Your Mom is right. Don't ever let anyone take advantage of you. Your cousins beating him up isn't going to make things better either. If this girl keeps getting you into trouble I definately would not hang with her. Hope this helps!
Sami
2006-08-16 08:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by Sami6262 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl is wrong in the head! what kid in 6th grade goes out with a ninth grader? don't let her use your phone. not even 4 a call. the relation ship isn't gonna last annyway. what happens when he goes 2 colledge? and even if he doesn't go 2 colledge then he isn't worth her time annyway. :P this girl likes ur phone. not nessisaraly u. tell her 2 go mooch of of somebody else.
2006-08-16 10:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by ea=me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and be her friend. If she is a real friend, she will understand that she cannot use your phone anymore.
Tell your cousins to mind their own business and stay out of it.
Good luck to you. Everyone makes mistakes, don't worry.
2006-08-15 13:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, make sure ur mom knows u had nothing to do w/ the txt messages, tell ur friend that u won't get in trouble for her agian, and if n e thing like that happens agian, she isn't a good friend and doesn't care about u.
2006-08-15 22:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by Son Petite Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen you should not be her friend because she sounds like she is a little to fresh for you, and you sound like a nice little girl so let her be and find some friends that wants to play with dolls and things that 11 yr old do but please don't be her friend follow your god mama's advice and not be her friend unless you want people to talk about you too trust me people are talking and she know it
2006-08-16 12:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know straight up that she can't be doing that to you. If you two are gonna be friends you need to have each others back. Let her know that that guy may not be right for her.
2006-08-16 12:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by Dlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay away from her. You'll just end up pregnant with her. Buy one of her boyfriends friends. Don't be a statistic. I should know. I was one.
2006-08-16 10:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by Louie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋