Girls, do you like it when a guy stares at you?

Question

Another one for the ladies I have always believed that women love men to pay attention to them. I am a guy in my mid 20s no model but not without my charm. What has always puzzled me is the mix of feelings you get when taking a good look(not obsessive staring) at a girl. The Teens and girls over my age nearly all seem flattered but the 20 year olds usually give me the i'm too good for you look! Now be honest ho do you feel when an ok guy just can't seem to take his eyes of you(again without it getting obsessive) (please mention your about age)

Answer 1

I'm 18, and I have no problem with men staring at me. If they are staring long enough, I'll even go over and talk to them, because I figure that they like what they see. I have absolutely no problem with it.

Answer 2

"Now be honest ho do you feel" Is this a typing error or are you calling me a Ho?!!

I quite like it, I must admit. Although some guys have the knack of making you feel uncomfortable. Also, if a guy is with a group of lads I think I am more likely to give him an evil, because guys tend to egg each other on and I feel less like he actually likes me and more like he is just trying to look cool in front of his mates.

Also, a guy will definitely get the very best evil I can muster if he is all chavvy, shirt off, sauntering down the high street with a can of Special Brew! I am quite a classy bird, I'll have you know!!!

But generally I am quite chuffed!!! I'm 25 by the way. It is nice to be made to feel that I've still got it!!!

Answer 3

I like a guy to pay attention to pay if he is good lucking, sexy or charming. A guy who is gawking at u in a creepy way is not nice.
Obsessively staring os not great either. If you do catch the girls eye, y not give her a little smile whilst keeping eye contact.

It can boost a girls mood and self- confidence incredible by gettin a nice smile from a nice looking guy!

Im 27

Answer 4

Here's teh thing with 20 something yes they enjoy teh attention but if you stare and then go up to them in a group of three or more they will look down on you because they are with firends, with two girls you will have a better percentage and chance of a hook up but when the girl is by herself she will nver be approachable...have you seen the creeps out there ...need I say more...you should believe in yourself more and you will find a girl who will dig you and never overlook teh girl next door or "friend" often she digs you better then any fling you could have and the releationship will only grow. Good Luck

Answer 5

I'm 48 years old and I get a smile on my face when a guy looks at me in the right way. I suppose that is the crux of the problem. Leering is horrid. As is sneering. But the right appreciative glance is always a boost! And believe me, that is something every woman can distinguish from the leering and the sneering!

Answer 6

It honestly depends on whose staring at you and how you staring at her. I am in my 20s and if a creepy old man is gawking at me it makes me nervous. Plus if you look at a person for a really long time its downright creepy. I am shy naturally so when someone is staring at me I can feel their eyes burning into me. I want to walk up to them and say "What you staring at?" If the guy is hot or confident he should just catch a few glances my way, catch my attention then finally walk up to me and say something. Don't just look you will creep someone out. I usually let the guy do all the work in the flirting department.

Answer 7

I do enjoy it when men look and would be bothered if they stopped. I don't like for men to stare just at my breasts, but an overall appreciative look with a smile is pleasant. As for actual staring, that could be menacing and make me uncomfortable. It probably depends on the context. age 44 and still lookin good

Answer 8

Well I'm not going to say what age I am but I might feel a bit flattered though possibly uncomfortable when a guy stares... it depends on how he looks when he's staring. I might think he's a pervert or just a nice guy depending on his expression and body language.

Answer 9

These two losers on my bus were staring at me today, so I asked them if they needed help with something, than they told me I should go on a diet. I think it kind of depends on the looks they are giving you. I don't usually pay attention, because I like to sink into the background, but I don't really like it. I'm 16.

Answer 10

well i guess i like it to a point! but if it isn't followed up with anything! then it's a pointless look! even if there is a wink!@
your right with attention so give it up and looking isn't good attention! but talking and holding a great conversation is great! i feen for it!
looks makes me feel like i'm just someting to look at like a painting if you will or it makes me feel like all you want is that one thing! <-- grant you i want it too but i want more then just that!
I want to feel contected and wanted more so then googled over! I mean look don't stare want more then that come up with wittty converstions not all about people a real converstation!
sorry i can't spell and i don't use spell check! I'm lazy! lol
and at work and in a hurry!
i'm 27 female!

Answer 11

If hes not a total creepo then i like a guy to look at me. Its romantic when there can be a thousand people walking in and out of whereever you are and you only have eyes for each other.