2006-08-08 05:31:58 · 16 answers · asked by ell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Think to your self .. you're better off ... !
I have lots of anger towards my ex .. but that's not going to make my life any better ... all it does is make you feel bad inside.
There's nothing you can do to change the past .... all you have to do now is worry about making yourself happy ... make your own choices ... be your own person ... and learn from your relationship so you don't make the same mistakes in the future ... !
2006-08-08 05:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u dont.. but u start realizing that your wasting so much of your energy on someone that doesnt deserve it.. so u just try and push it back to the back of your mind, realize that IF u have children together that instead of focusing on how you feel about ur x, that ur focus needs to be about your children, and that no matter what has gone on between the two of u, that they need to be both of yours and his top priorities, and if u keep letting the anger and resentment out it only hurts them in the long run.. so u need to learn how to cope with it.. and pick and choose your battles with your x husband and save the anger for those times.. but to try and do what is right for your children, and thats not letting the anger get the better of u , to where their lives are affected by it..
2006-08-08 12:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray. My pastor just gave a sermon on forgiveness. It hit me hard because I have such bitter resentment for my ex husband as well. God wants us to forgive completely. Not say "I forgive you" and then never forget it. It's hard as a human being who has been wronged by someone they trusted in. My best advice for you would just be to pray that you can have the strength to completely forgive this person and move on.
2006-08-08 12:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you see anger and resentment trying to bum a ride on the side of the road, and you just pass them by
2006-08-08 12:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Echo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends what ur ex husband do...
going out to know new guys will help to distract u from thinking of ur ex husband...
2006-08-08 12:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by Thong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind that you are starting a new life. Get over the habit of caring what he thinks and does. Get busy with new things and new places!
2006-08-08 12:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Past is dead and it needs to be buried in oblivion.Look forward to see what lies ahead and look for happy situations and meet with interesting people, and read good books.Forget and forgive.
2006-08-08 12:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by nkmy83@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By just moving on ... his loss for losing you... you can do better ... chalk him up as a bad mistake, learn from it, and move on....life is far too short to dwell, and you should focus on looking ahead and improving your life, not dwelling on what an a** he was..... live life !
2006-08-08 12:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by Tom A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rough to do when you were ripped off. I never want to see his face ever after what he did to my life but end up seeing him on the grandbabys birthday. I barely tolerate him and then leave asap.
2006-08-08 12:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build a new life of your own and you won't think about him anymore. One day you will wonder shy you ever did.
2006-08-08 12:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋