A question for every body on here?

Question

OK this question is gong to sound really odd and maybe even childish but I am still going to ask it.

Looking through the questions that I have been looking at on her there seems to be a very large amount of them sex related and this is a problem that I have. Every where I go I feel like a little kid because there are people going on about sex; even my friends going on about this gal they were with or this boy they slept with last night, and it just makes me feel like a little kid because I am 23 years old and not done it at all and so I was just wondering if there is anyone who would say honestly that they havent done it either or am I the only one, cos sometimes it feels that way

I know you are prob sitting there peeing yourself laughing at me right now but it is an honest question that I am asking. People tell me all the time that there is alot of other people like me but I just wonder about that so I decided to see who would be honest and answer my question

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Jay

Answer 1

Why would any one with intelligence laugh at your own personal choice?

If I were to laugh at any, I'd laugh at your pathetic mates that brag on about who they were with last night and how it was.

If they can announce to the world that they had just had sex with some girl then my guess is that it was meaningless to them - it probably meant nothing and I find that both disgusting and disrespectful of the girl in question and her privacy.

Age is nothing and should not be a limit on your sex life. The only ones who are acting like 'kids' as you put it, are indeed your friends acting immaturely - 'hee hee - I lyk sex wif a gurl last night hee hee - twas fun - aren't I ever so grown up!?>!?'

No. They are the complete opposite.

You continue living the way you do - you'll know when you're ready because you would have found some one truly amazing that you are comfortable around and feel content and at ease with.

Only you can decided when it's time and don't let your friends make or wrongly influence one of the most important decisions of your life for you!

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Answer 2

Hi! Jay I am a 23 year women, I believe in sex until marriage or either when I am comfotable to do it. You only can be a virgin one time so let the first time be with someone who you love and love you back for you. Don't listen to the negative people(saying you still a virgin it's all about respect). Because there is alot of STD out there so if you do decide to have sex let it be (protective sex use a condom) You will find someone who will respect you for you, but first you have to love yourself.

Answer 3

I'm not laughing... I'm still a virgin and at least one of my friends is. There's lots of young people who still haven't found the right person, and good on you for waiting! I'm sure that when your time comes it'll be damn good. Don't feel like a kid, you are probably a lot more mature than some people, especially those always asking questions about sex.

Answer 4

I'm not here to say that I am still a virgin, being that I lost my virginity at the age of 16. But I know for a fact that you're not the only one, and I know more than a couple of people who would openly say it.

No sex before marriage might seem laughable in the society today, but there are people who do stick to their decisions. So don't worry, you're not alone.

Answer 5

I was a virgin when I married. I admire you so much for abstaining. Especially with all the pressure today. You are right about everyone being obsessed with sex, Don't let it bother you, and stick with what feels right for you. You'll be glad in the long run. And you are not the only one!!

Answer 6

hi 23 not bad i didn't loose my virginity until 18 quite proud of that actually. You are probally the same waiting for that right person cause if your not you easily pick up a girl and do the deed couldn't you. (i am now clapping for you) congratulations

Answer 7

okay..im proud to say that im still a virgin..
even when it comes to dating,i honestly tell the guy that im still a virgin and will be until the day i got married..i make it clear to them that im not their typical kind of girl..
i stick to my guns no matter what..
let's face the fact that they laugh at me and never ask for a second date..but i don't care..as long as i know that im doing the right thing..i woulndn't be bothered..

hey,im proud of you and is happy to know that you are not one of those men..

you can get a hold of me if you feel like talking with anything!

Answer 8

I was 25 before my first time and that was not successful got it on the second attempt ( with the same guy) before that i was always working or thinking about work nothing else mattered

Answer 9

20 and yes i havent done it, i have moments where i feel"IM THE ONLY ONE" but most of the time i think do i really wanna loose it out the back of the pub or in the back of someones car, drunk or with someone who is only thinkink yes i scored, so your not the only one and plus most of the time people lie!!!! so dont believe what they say

Answer 10

hey jay i praise you. i was 13 when i lost my verginity(unwillingly) and i kick myself for letting it happen. i wish i would have waited till i got married. you are not alone. a friend of mine lost her virginity on her wedding night at the age of 46. you just need to keep your head up and thank the lord and your own strength that you have waited. you dont have to worry about someone coming up to you saying that their baby is yours or any STD's. thank you for your honesty and the courage to bring that out. good luck.