This guy who has had feelings toward me for like a year has always been really sweet to me when it's only me and him. But at like parties and during class if someone else is there, he usually doesn't hang around me...I'm kind of quiet, so it doesn't surprise me that he hangs around the talkative, bubbly people at parties and things.
But I was wondering...is it possible for him to still have feelings toward me and not put me before other people, like before friends?(most of his friends are girls) Or should I just get out of this relationship? Are there other guys who act like he has been acting?
2006-08-08 05:25:57 · 5 answers · asked by Oink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm sorry to be the one to tell you this honey but you are in a relationship that us guys like to call "THE SAFE ZONE". you see this is how it works:
First you find a girl that is shy, kind, loving, caring, soft spoken, faithful, and all that good stuff that you might find in a girl that has good feelings and family values. then once you find that girl you keep her to your self because you know she is only yours and because she does not flirt with anybody else then you have nothing to worry about.
Then....... once you found that girl, you are now able to flirt around with other so called " female friend" but in reality he is just keeping his options open. so if for whatever reason you guys stop talking he has plenty of other girls to chose from.
In conclusion: be smart babygirl don't waist your time trying to figure guys out. most of them are selfish and immature. focus in your studies and eventually a guy that truly loves you for who you are will come along. trust me. it's really hard to study for a test with a heartbroken jk. don't be a guys "SAFE ZONE".
2006-08-08 05:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by Tommy vercetti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No my man is not like that.
Did he introduce you to his friends as his girlfriend? How does he treat you when he's with company? Does he act as if he doesn't know you? Or is he totally mean to you?? Does he come to you now and then and see if you're allright, cozy etc? If he's not mean to you or anything, then I don't think you should worry. Like you said, you are kind of quiet, so that's why he probably goes to his friends to chat and may be come to you once in a while for a kiss or to get you a drink.
If it appears that he is just trying to ignore you when his friends are around, then you should leave him.
2006-08-08 12:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy is not worth your time if he doesn't treat you the same out in public and in private. He is being two-faced to you and it's not very respectful. You deserve better than that.
2006-08-08 12:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he is taking u for granted. i dont act like that. if it is disturbing u so much, please dont trouble yrself, go ahead and talk 2 him regarding this. ths is not a reason to get out of the relationship
2006-08-08 12:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by archer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is jealous, he feels that if u pay attention to someone else, you dont love him
2006-08-08 12:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋