Do you believe the apple falls far from the tree?
2006-08-08 05:14:57 · 35 answers · asked by isanynameavialable 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree, but that doesn't mean it's inevitable we'll be like our parents. My parents were in a horribly abusive relationship, but I'm in therapy and I'm really trying and learning ways to have good communication, fulfill my husband's needs, be loving, and be happy and healthy. I am not abusive and my husband and I have a beautiful relationship. You can have a beautiful relationship with this girl too, but she's going to have to choose to go her own way and not become her mother. Do you think she can do this?
2006-08-08 05:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by Flutter 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Depends on if the Daughter is Committed to a Godly Relationship with me...otherwise...I would only be in the game 4 a minute. Cuz' you don't know how far back emotionally the mother has set this woman by seeing those things....Trust me...I have been there ( marriage) and I should had looked at how the mother in law treated her husband. But NOW I AM FREE!
2006-08-08 05:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah the apple doesnt fall too far from the tree. You should follow your heart if this girl TRULY loves you she wont think twice about cheating on you.
2006-08-08 05:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 16:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by heinemann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would marry her. I believe that since her mother cheats on her father she sees what it does to the family and how it hurts people. So if she truely loves the one she is going to marry she wouldnt want to cheat because she has seen first had what it can do to the people involved. My gf's parents fight and dont get along and she sees how that affects her parents, herself, and her sister so she is more understanding and we work through problems opposed to pushing them under the rug.
2006-08-08 05:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by Brad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess she go a couple of different ways with it, either she is totally turned off by the way her mother acts or she thinks that's the way things are suppose to be. Faith is really important in a marriage, do you trust this person now? Don't rush something this important unless you are absolutely sure.
2006-08-08 05:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by lawsonmc11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you shouldnt judge the daughter by the mothers actions, just because the mother is a dirty * it doesnt mean the daughter is or will be, i think she is less likely to tolerate or condone that kind of behaviour, if she knows what kinds of games her mother plays.
2006-08-08 05:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah!!!
I'd go after the mother while the daughter wasn't lookin...it's like a 2 for 1 deal.
2006-08-08 05:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by Big Eric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no cuz Im female but I think you want advice. Maybe cuz she isn't her Mom and they may have a bad marriage. Maybe yours can be alot better if you are similar and compatable. I advise reading astrology books for compatability. FIRESIGNS ARE COMPATABLE WITH FIRESIGNS
Aries Leos and Sagitarius are compatable etc
Pisces, Cancers, and Scorpios are compatable
2006-08-08 05:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about how she feels about her mom's cheating? Maybe there is other problems in the marriage that leads her to cheat. Find out if your girl will open up to you about it. It all sarts with a conversation....go from there.
2006-08-08 05:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by angela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋