i think once
he stops spoiling with his gifts
his work takes over his life
when he expects ME to do all the housework
he gets older and not the handsome devil he once was
you find another man who you like more
of course if he cheats on you
anything i forgot?
2006-08-08 05:04:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whoa...you are so shallow and high maintenance.
To answer your other question....divorce him. He certainly deserves better than you.
2006-08-08 05:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by Kaia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See, this is why men have a hard time trusting women when they get out of a relationship with women like you.
You sound to be a very selfish woman. It doesn't sound like you married him for love. Seems as though you're more into how a man can be materialistic with you & make you the center of his attention. You say that he's getting older, don't you think that you are as well?!? It's time for you to wake up, grow up & see reality of what marriage is all about.
Don't cheat on him, be an honest woman & set him free with a divorce.
2006-08-08 05:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no circumstances to cheat. You took a vow. If you decide you want a romp in the hay with someone else, you should leave your husband first. Just because things aren't exactly ideal for you doesn't give you the go a head to search in greener pastures.
2006-08-08 05:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Linda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE is the reason not to cheat.If you are thinking about or looking for reasons to do it ...then you need to ask yourself if you really LOVE the guy or what.When you love a man then it does not matter how he changes over the years.It does not matter that the gift slow down or stop,it doesnt matter that he spends more time at his job and I am doing more to help out at home.We are a team and sometimes you gotta take one for the team.If you want a realationship to work then you have to know that things change with time but LOVE last forever.
2006-08-08 05:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by empresscalls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that how you see a easy exit to cheat on him hoping that he will do better with you??? you making this worst and making you look like a w h o r e and plain and simple. Imarried to my wife and never once to think about cheating my wife why? becasue I married her becasue I love her.. If I didn't think that and feel i had to cheat then I won't be married to her. She really trust me and knowing my job to make her happy and protect her and you not doing any of that you doing to make it easier for you to do that. and If I were you, I leave becasue no need to cheat. and if you cheat will have name all over the place where people said oh she cheat her husband and she easy to get her in bed ... wow you name in guys black book. whoa!
2006-08-08 05:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no circumstances that you should cheat on your husband. How about being an adult and getting a divorce if you're too immature to be faithful?
2006-08-08 05:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jessica: Your attitude towards your marriage sucks.
Do your husband a favor. Get a divorce so that he can move on and find a woman with a real heart.
He may have his flaws, but it sounds to me like YOU are the real problem here.
2006-08-08 05:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by homelessharold 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never cheat. Obviously, you have more love and respect for material things, than for the "love of your life". You are a shallow and cold person, and am glad you are not in MY life. I pity your husband.
2006-08-08 05:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it. It can only make things worse. If a divorce happens
it WILL BE held against you.....Dont have an affair to spite your
husband. Be Smart here.
2006-08-08 05:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by C Med 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol geeze between this question and ur other one about money.. id have to say ur nothing but a gold digging lack of morals and values.. sleeze.. Grow up and learn that vows are something ur suppose to live by , not just pick and choose when its convient for u..
2006-08-08 05:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never cheat. That is why we have what's called divorce. All the things you mentioned are just excuses.. and we know what they say about excuses...
2006-08-08 05:09:28 · answer #11 · answered by Mary J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋