Why do girls like guys that are jerks?

Question

In my whole life at school i saw guys that treat girls so badly that i knew that they are going to jail in the future but ALL the time they came back. WTF!? Is this some kind of woman defect to see something good in a jerk.

Answer 1

No, its just an "Insecure issue" more than them, seeing something "Good" in these, jerk types, you talk about.........Its the women who feel that they cant, get a decent guy........And the good guys,out there, are merely overlooked, because, alot of women look for guys, that, have a little "Rebellion" in them, for the simple fact, girls, feel like they are in the "Comfort Zone" if they choose, guys, that they normally wouldn't give the time of day too.......Simply because, they dont think they deserve, to be treated, with "Respect", stemmed from "Low-SelfEsteem"...Its so sad, but, so "True" ......Dont give up hope , yet, because, those types, of women, need to be taught, a thing or two, before they begin raising their "Standards" for a better, more caring type of Book-Worm, but, it will take them regaining their "self-esteem" first, before, they make that leap, of looking for those "Better-Qualified" for them..........I hope you understand, just a little, of what I just said......I know, because, I was once, one of those girls, my situation, was because, I didn't have my father Play, any significant roles, enough in my life, for me to not pick , "Jerks" you know.........My dad was never, there, for me,is why I always picked, the "loser types" but, its taken, me 43 years to finally learn, how to just , know, it will never work, with those types again.....And that I desperately need to raise, my standards, and completely get out of my comfort zone. Too make sure that who I pick next time around, isn't going to be, the "Rebellious" type, at all, or I'll just remain "Single" the rest of my life, rather than choose, another "Loser Type" of man!!! There's no going back to those types,of men for this woman!!! Good guys, only from, here on, for me!!! Smile!!!

Answer 2

because-

there was something about the guy that
attracted the girl in the first place.
then once he gets the girl, he doesn't
treat here the same way and takes her
for granted and treats her badly.

now the girl doesn't like the way that the guy
is treating her (like a total JERK!)
but girl have more compassion and are
very hopeful and think he can change
with her help and guidance.
she see's that there's hope if he was once
sweet. but the guys dont respond and
treat the girls even more dispicably.

when all she was trying to do was
help him and the relationship.

guys find it cool to be jerks, and at the time
he may seem cool to his friends, but in the end
he'll get his. they always do!

Answer 3

The jerks don't care about the girl. This means either the jerk is better looking than the girl and can get other girls and the girl knows this, or the girl is so stupid she likes the lack of attention because it makes her feel sexy in trying to overcome that challenge. In either case, you are dealing with a dumb girl.

Answer 4

you know what, i've been a good guy all my life,
and that is a nono, you become their "friends" which is not always what i wanted, but you know, that'S life..so
then i learned to be less nice, yes i have lied to women, yes i did deceive them, but still being a nice guy..you knwo one of those good lies, the one where you have to lie so that it makes things better, and make the girl better off, and yet, then i got accused of not being trust worthy, which is fine, then i learned to be a jerk, and that got me more girls, and then i realized that i didn't like being a jerk. so i stopped, and now i'm single.the moral of the story is, most women don't know what they want, and when you give them what they want, there's no more challenge so the relationship goes bad. And if they do know what they want, they know that they can always get better, and as soon as that pportunity comes, then, they grab that chance.

Answer 5

It's not about them being jerks but those kids usually have something exciting to do. The adrenaline of doing something even illegal can attract a girl. But its not all the girls that are like this.

Answer 6

i don't know i do like nice guys but i like jerks to i guess in skool we just date the hotter guy who is most of the time a big jerk

Answer 7

Women want MEN, not a clone of themselves, even if he's a jerk!

[I know, I've observed the same thing, many times]

Answer 8

The jerk dared to ask

Answer 9

It's not a defect, it's a phase we all go through, just like guys who only go after girls with big boobs. We grow out of it a lot sooner than you grow out of yours!

Answer 10

I truly wish I knew I have a best friend who is treated like that and the sad part is she doesnt even relize its happening to her. Personally Im not attracted to that type ... Im attracted to humor .